My husband in on probation for the last two years, since 2011, we got married 2012, I have never gotten in trouble with the law before, my husband has been put in jail all together 3 times total of 6 months but not consecutively. This last time he was in we had gotten into a loud verbal conversation and it was to be a warning but then he got a disorderly conduct
and was put in and stayed for a dirty UA. I then found out shortly after he was to stay in that I was pregnant. When my husband got out we were going to try and start out fresh, but we ended up getting 4 police contacts in 4 weeks. All the times they split us up for the night, the last time my husband was gone for a week. He was to come home but didn't so I went to his mothers place and tried to find out why, we got into a verbal fight and then ended in a physical one, I ran out of the place and cops were called my husband was bleeding and I was sent to the hospital with bleeding and bruises and concern for my baby. Every was ok, both me and my husband said we did not want to make statements we just wanted to alone time and to work things out. but I got charged with disorderly
and domestic abuse because his mother said I broke in and started to yell and hit my husband, I am now going to court
. The court put a no contact on me against my husband, my husband then got arrested and is PO said he was going to put a extra one on but to my husband against me, and that if he wanted contact to put a request form in and see if it is approved or denied. My husband then a few weeks later removed the no contact thro the court and put the request to have contact with me with his PO. well the only contact we can have is over the phone, appointments for the baby and counseling. well now I couldn't afford our apartment so I had to pack up and move all our stuff with just the little help from my family my husband could not come help. well I had to give him the rest of his clothing and stuff, his mother would not answer the phone, and my husband has been bouncing from home to home because he cant live with me because his PO won't let him. well my mother and I took his few belongings to his mothers, and started to unload it my husband came out and was going to take it in, his mother then kicked him out and started a verbal fight with my mother and I, so I called the other place my husband was staying at to come get his stuff, cops were called and they had asked if my husband and I could have contact and I said yes and no, yes because the no contact was dropped through the court and no because his PO won't let us except for a few ways, the cops said they did not care with what his PO said and that this conversation/fight between his mother and I needed to end, so my husband left with the other people and I left with my mother and it was all a warning, this following Monday, my husband was arrested on a PO hold do to me and him had face to face contact because I dropped off is belongings to him. I am asking can my husbands PO have this no contact on us do to the no contact is removed through the court, and this no contact he put on is not part of my husbands probation so can he be arrested and be in trouble for it. I am asking if what my husbands PO doing legal, because the judge and law enforcement and other court people have no idea what is going on and thought my husband was back with me since the no contact was removed, my husband and I are having a baby our first and my husband has already missed out on so much, I am just asking can this all be legal and can he possible go back to jail for being in trouble of just seeing me and miss out on his child completely?