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In PlentyOfFish site, if you want to appear offline all the time, go to EDIT
your profile. At the top of the page you will see an option that will allow you to hide your whole profile.
If you want to appear online
, but not receive any instant messages, you go into your mail settings
and in the very first section you will see there is a check box that will allow you to say no to instant messages.
However, even if you have set your profile to hidden
, those who already have added you to their Favorites
can track your Online Status.
For more info about this, please click the link below:Hiding and Being Invisible
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