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My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mom. This change and the fact that you moved, could have set off this behavior in your kitty.
The hair pulling is most likely caused by an obsessive-compulsive condition called feline psychogenic alopecia. You can read more about it, here:
If this is the case, the vet could treat it with a steroid shot and sometimes, antihistamines are prescribed to decrease the sensitivity of the skin, if it is itchy. However, in the case of your girl, because she's diabetic, steroids would not be a good idea, so the calming pills should help. Were the calming pills prescribed by the vet or did you by them in a store? What is the name of the medication?
If this has not helped, and you did buy the pills over the counter, discuss with the vet, a prescription calming medication that should help. Part of the reason for fur pulling is stress/anxiety, and there are many choices of medication to choose from.
Treating her stress and enrichment of her environment will help with this problem. Even though you have less room in your apt. than where you used to live, I'm glad you're playing running games with her before bed! Here is a list of toys she should love, including a cat dvd:
Also, if she doesn't yet have one, get a kitty condo with multiple levels, shelves and 'hidey' holes. These are great for scratching (they're covered with carpet), playing, and also sleeping.
You can also try a cat-calming pheromone called Feliway. You can find both the spray and plug in forms of this product at major pet supply stores. Here is more information:
Her skin and fur may be dry, so add some Wild Alaskan fish oil, rich with Omega 3's to her food
. You can find this in pet supply stores:
Also, make sure she doesn't have any external parasites like fleas or mites. Even if she's an indoor kitty, these can still be brought inside by humans.
I hope all will be well with your kitty and please let me know how she's doing. Thanks!
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