My place of employment...
My place of employment is toxic. People are saying that I'm sleeping with the bosses son, dragging my name through false stories, and I'm being mistreated by a coworkers because of it. My mental health and my reputation...all on the line. I'm a single mom of 3 boys and I AM NOT nor have I ever slept with or even kissed this man. I'm so upset! I'm a good mom, that just wants a safe and healthy work environment and to be able to provide for my kids.
Lawyer's Assistant: When did this begin? Was the work environment intimidating, hostile, or abusive?
This is the message I'm hoping to send the bosses son.. an employee continues to miss treat me... infront of everyone.... here is the winded message I want to send but I'm scared I'll loose my job if I stand up to him..I've heard of other women getting fired/layed off when they confront him, or on the other hand sleep with him... I however have never once touched or allowed him to touch me... anyways here's the message I hope you are ready .... this is again what I want to send the bosses son who runs the downstairs night club that I bartend at
Lawyer's Assistant: What kind of workplace is this (private sector, public sector, etc.)? How many employees?
And also I'm not impressed with Jodi! Can explain what she did (I was humiliated for no reason infront of everyone DOWNSTAIRS, she walked downstairs and straight up disrespected me barking at me telling me Nathan does NOT drink that beer (Bud Light, that Nathan straight up ordered from me literally 2 minutes previous to her grand entrance downstairs) .. She yelled at me and ordered me to give her a BUDWIESER from the fridge AND PROCEEDED TO GIVE IT TO NATHAN WHO WAS SITTING AT THE DOOR WHERE Marty sits) , I am not impressed nor will I stand to be treated like this. Elysa and I know what our customers drink and and added to that Nathans my friend( like I don't know what my buddy drinks..., He asked for bud LIGHT DOWNSTAIRS , NOT BUDWIESER.Dead ass not Impressed at all. Elsya and Nathan saw it all go down ALONG WITH THE OTHER CUSTOMERS I WAS TAKING CARE OF, anyways I hope we can discuss this along with a few other things. I'D APPRECIAT IT IF UPSTAIRS SERVERS Namely JODI STOP MUDDLING IN DOWNSTAIRS SERVICE. IF SHE had an issue with me, she could have pulled me aside and asked me like an actual human being. I UNDERSTAND SHES WORKED HERE A WHILE BUT THAT WAS COMPLETELY OVERSTEPPING, HUMILIATING, UNPROFESSIONAL AND EXTREMELY RUDE.Ideally I'd like to have a sit down with you, and JODI.I moved downstairs to get away from all the drama and pettiness of the girls and I'm not ashamed to say it...I don't do drama, I don't do gossip, and I don't let people miss treat me. I love working downstairs with Elysa and Skyer, the bouncers. I love our little team down there.. I have fun doing what I do best, ***** ***** and give my clients a fun cheerful experience at Club 180. I really don't understand what I did for her to get so aggressive verbally with me....anywayz I'm exhausted, ticked off and over this drama. Elysa and Skyler and your son trained me in the operations of our downstairs bar. I'm just asking for Respect THATS ALL. IDK WHAT MADE HER SO NASTY TO ME. NON OF US DID... SHE STORMED IN BITCHED ME OUT AND DEMANDED A BEER TELLING ME THATS NOT WHAT HE DRINKS...AND STORMED OUT. IM SORRY BUT WTF ....ALSO SORRY FOR CAPS ON. I'm just emphasizing my frustration and disgust... Elysa was just as shocked as I was. I love working w Elysa and I love leaning the ropes from them both.I just really want respect, and a genuine apology. I understand she has seniority as she's worked there for quite sometime. I also know I don't understand or know everything just yet. I'm so completely comfortable downstairs as that's the environment I enjoy to bartend in. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses... and I've been actively participating as a team, learning and engaging with my Patons. All I ask is for some respect in the workplace... I don't go into her section upstairs and mess up her shit. Honestly I'm sorry for the book, but I had to get it off my chest.So yeah a little confused as to why she did that, and would honestly like an apology, are at least try and figure out how I offended her to the point that she had to publicly humiliate me for something she had no part in.. she didn't see the transaction nor did she know I was the one who bought it for him.. I gave him $20 to spend, he asked for Bud LIGHT...like all weekend... not just last night w me but Elysa can attest to the fact we both served him Bud Light multiple times this weekend with 0 complaints from my budy Nathan. So maybe next time when she Decides to come to the bar im tending and demand I re-serve a HAPPY PAYING customer she can buy the beer she demands to serve MY FRIENDS/customers Instead. Last time i checked u hired me down here. I answer to you, and your dad. You sign my paychecks, and Honestly when I need to be corrected or learn something new.. You Skyler and Elysa you and Donna of course are more than capable of helping me effectively, respectfully ***** ***** Because honestly I do love criticism and I love improving my skills & getting to know
Lawyer's Assistant: The Employment Lawyer will be able to walk you through that. Where are you located? Harassment laws vary by state.
Public I'm assuming as I'm a bartender in the night club downstairs
Lawyer's Assistant: Is there anything else the Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured that they'll be able to help you.