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I am looking for some advice regarding my current separation/divorce.

Lawyer's Assistant: What steps have you taken? Have you filed any papers in family court?

No not yet, things went very far south just in the last day or two and I am trying to educate myself and do what I can to best prepare before I am served

Lawyer's Assistant: Family law varies by province. What province are you in?

Alberta

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I have 3 children, 2 of which are legally mine. Since she left in December I have been paying 1500 a month and have had the kids probably 35-40% of the time

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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
Thank you. It kind of cut me off in asking my question. Should I continue paying her the 1500 per month until we sit down with lawyers or should I stop until some written agreement is created

I am sorry to hear this.

I need a lot more of the basic facts and then I have to be clear about what your question is.

How long were you married for?

Did you live together first and if so for how long?

Is there a separation or court order?

What is the $1500 a month for- child support?

Are your incomes equal?

What is happening with the assets?

Do you mean that one of the children is a step child?

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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
Married since sept 2013
Lived together for 3 years prior
No separation or court order
1500 is “child support” however also has been stated that if I don’t pay her that she will come after me for half of a supposed $60000 shared debt, which I have no idea what that is from unless she is includingtje $55000 van which she has and is only in her name.
Customer reply replied 4 months ago
I make $84000 and she makes close to 100000
Not much for assets
One step child but not legally adopted
Customer reply replied 4 months ago
that being said is it advisable to continue paying her if she now says she does not want me to have 50/50 and will take me to court? Or should I withhold until a written agreement is made

You should pay child support based on the Federal Child Support Guidelines and your gross annual income. Based on $84,000 and 3 kids in Alberta you should be paying $1,623.00.

But there is no doubt that you should be sure to get something in writing soon. So the most prudent course of action for you is to consult with a family lawyer in your city with a view to retaining the lawyer to assist you in negotiating a settlement agreement or else proceeding to court if necessary.

You can contact the Law Society and use their Lawyer Referral Service. You will be given the name of a lawyer and can consult with the lawyer and the first half hour will be free.

The number is:

1-***-***-**** or
***-***-**** in Calgary

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Customer reply replied 4 months ago
Thank you

You are very welcome.

Enjoy your weekend.

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