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I am sorry to hear this.
You don't actually have a right to any of this information.
But it may be possible, if the information is needed for health related reasons, especially for you child that you could get this information by way of a Court Order.
What may make sense, is to retain a lawyer to send her a letter essentially threatening a lawsuit. You may not be able to succeed in the lawsuit and perhaps cannot even afford the legal fees to sue but that letter very well may get you want you want as your birth mother certainly will not want you dragging her into Court.
A letter will not cost much and may be all it takes.
I suggest that you at least consider having a face to face consultation with a family lawyer.
You can contact the Law Society and use their Lawyer Referral Service. You will be given the name of a lawyer and can consult with the lawyer and the first half hour will be free.
The number is:722-2643
or toll-free at
Let me know if you need any further clarification.