I have three children ages 14, 19 and 21. They spend 50% ofI have three children ages 14, 19 and 21. They spend 50% of their time with me and 50% of their time with my ex. I currently pay child support for all three children. The two adult children are in university and often complain that their mother does not help them with purchases or spending money. I had asked my ex for both of us to put in an equal amount as an allowance for the adult children to help them get by. My ex refused. Both adult children have part-time jobs but this brings in minimal revenue as their focus is university and does not cover for their basic teenage needs. Through the judgement of divorce, the children's tuition is being paid through a special fund (RESP) that my ex and I had invested in while we were together which has matured a few years ago. All this to say that the children's education cost does not factor into the child support payments because it is handled through this RESP money. I currently pay $875 per month in child support. The question I have is that according to my adult children, they receive little or no help financially from their mother so I feel it is unfair as the money seems to be going to my ex for her personal use (a significant portion of it at least as I realize there are recurring child support costs such as groceries, for example). An important portion of the child support I pay does not seem to be going to the children. What recourse do I have to address this? Any advice you can provide is appreciated. … read more
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My ex and I are trying to decide on contributions to ourMy ex and I are trying to decide on contributions to our daughter's post-secondary education. I get a tuition benefit for the majority of the tuition portion and my mother has RESP money saved as well… read more
Debra
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Doctoral Degree
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I'm a university student who has to make child supportI'm a university student who has to make child support payments. When calculating "my" income do payments from and RESP that my parents set up for me count as income when calculating how much child ma… read more
Debra
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Hello Debra. I live in Ontario. I earn approx. 50k a yr. latelyHello Debra. I live in Ontario. I earn approx. 50k a yr. lately less. I pay $966 for 2 daughters aged 11 and 9. My ex lives with her spouse who earns approx. 65k+ a yr. They have a child together, as … read more
Debra
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I am a support paying father of 2 children, age 19 and 21.I am a support paying father of 2 children, age 19 and 21. Both are going to post secondary school and we are having some issues with the children's mother and amounts to be paid. I currently still pa… read more
Debra
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Doctoral Degree
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Hi, I have been divorced for 10 years, and my ex-husbandHi, I have been divorced for 10 years, and my ex-husband has now come after me to pay him child support because he claims he makes less money than me. We have shared custody and access has been 50/50,… read more
Law.Hut
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Law degree (Juris Doctor)
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Lived together as married for 9 years. Bought house and variousLived together as married for 9 years. Bought house and various cars jointly over the years. She had the down payment approx 30K at the beginning and because of an old child maintenance issue convince… read more
Debra
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Doctoral Degree
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Old child custody agreement had me, the father having 43% custodyOld child custody agreement had me, the father having 43% custody of my two children. My income was 15500. I agreed to pay 250 per month to cover child day care costs.... as of July 2006 these costs w… read more
Debra
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Doctoral Degree
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I currently am divorced and have 1 child that we share jointI currently am divorced and have 1 child that we share joint custody and share the child 50% of the time (week on/week off). Our parenting agreement says we pay child support based on a 3 year average… read more
Debra
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Doctoral Degree
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my wife and i are going through separation, i make 90k shemy wife and i are going through separation, i make 90k she makes 20k. She does not want to see a lawyer. weve been married for 22 years, with 3 children we have 3 children (17 and 19 and 23) 2 staying… read more
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Can you tell me when I can stop paying child support for myCan you tell me when I can stop paying child support for my daughter? She is 19, lives in Ontario, is attending university full time and has recently signed a lease and moved out of her mother home. S… read more
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I am divorced with 2 children ages 17 and 15 both childrenI am divorced with 2 children ages 17 and 15 both children have lived with us full time on different occasions and I have been the only one paying child support. My daughter spent 8 months with us a c… read more
Debra
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Doctoral Degree
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I have separation agreement with my ex (join custody, shareI have separation agreement with my ex (join custody, share custody, one child spending ~50% at each house, payment based on difference in income from Canadian Federal tables +15%, extras paid accordi… read more
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what child support (if any) would one have to pay if therewhat child support (if any) would one have to pay if there income is approx $80,000 and the judgement is a joint custody arrangement with a 50/50 split in access to the child.… read more
Debra
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Hi, My brother is going for a divorce. How does alimony workHi, My brother is going for a divorce. How does alimony work? He has been married for 3 years, has 2 children which he is paying $1700.00 a month in child support plus is paying $400.00 a month for da… read more
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