What are rights of wife/mother: synopsis: - physical /

What are rights of wife/mother:

synopsis:
- physical / emotional / verbal abuse by husband - earliest time I just heard of today is that 2 months BEFORE baby was born - physical (pulled her off a ladder & she fell on hardwood floor)
- husband has verbally & emotionally abused wife in front of child (now 4 yrs old) - this has been ongoing
- physical - does NOT put a hand on her, but will PUSH her with his body/chest.
- eg: takes the blankets & pillows off the bed (while she is sleeping) before he goes to work on his night shift, will turn on TV's in the house to "blaring" noise before he leaves for his job, she has to get up and shut everything off.
- verbally abases mother in front of 4 yr old daughter
- verbally abases mother in front of her 20 yr old son
- husband has told wife - "I will rape you financially and get everything I can out of you"
- husband cleaned out wife's bank account - $4,000 (balance in account plus overdraft) while she was away for a couple of days.
- Our daughter/step-daughter - has worked hard to buy HER house, has spent countless hours upgrading it (she takes after her dad, constantly learning from her dad (my spouse).

We know she will end up having to give him HALF of her Pension during the time they have been together (7 years)

She has been TOLD she will have to PAY him for 50/50 custody because she makes more money than him - WRONG !! in my opinion

She has been TOLD that she has to give him HALF the equity in HER house