My X partner, we broke up 4 weeks ago when he realised he…

My X partner, we broke up 4 weeks ago when he realised he couldn't control me anymore. Used to be in charge of everything, my medication that went missing half the time all my bank accounts my savings. He "borrowed" money out of my home loan with the promise of giving it back. He leaved out of my pocket for over a year, took everything we had & when I said I won't my money back, he said Now I see your true colours packed his things up and left. I finally got control of my mind again. My mum past away, he moved in, said he wants to look after us. May qustion is,

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On 2 occasions when we were together. 1st - I said one morning, did we have sex last night.? He said- ye, well we started then a felt ur body go limp so I just quickly finished and cleaned you up. 2nd- why are my underwear off.? Did we do it last night.? Yes. Me- but I don't remember anything.! Ye, it did feel a bit Rapie, but you were in to it. Is this Rape?

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Because of my depression loosing my mum, and he knew I had no family, not one friend by my side. It's just me and my 2 kids living on a big property with not one person in sight. He played mind games all the time, he would go through my phone, have all my bank cards, when I said we need help at the property.! He said NO, I'll do everything my self.! But he never did. He has round my property destroyed my business that's registered to my property. He would accuse me of sleeping around, when I haven't left the property for over 3 months. I had rules on how to wake him up, how to talk to him, the way I say things "so I don't ruin his day" I wasn't aloud to talk to him about, how it made me feel when he did something wrong to me. He said we don't need friends, this is the time to put our heads down & work for our future. I paid him $700 a week to look after me & the kids, he said that barely covers his bills, I paid for all the food,bills,his car,at times his child support, clothes mean while he had a drug habit that I wasn't aware of in the 1st couple of months. I knew he had a history of it, has been charged with drug offences before, but when we met he said he doesn't touch anything. When I found out he said he will stop, I believe him and thought in a way I was helping him and when he comes out on the other side (drug free) he will be that person that I thought he was when we 1st met. His last drug offence that he got charged with was only 6 months ago. Is there anything that I can do or charge him with to stop him.? I'm obviously not the only woman his done this to, his got 2 families in town that his abused then did the run on. A young girl in town that has his child that he abused so much & put down with hireable roomers he spread around about her, has moved to Melbourne just to get away from him. I really am worried about his next victim that his already picked and is "dating"