The police do not force anything. If they believe that your ex was in danger then they take them out and they do this based on what she has told them.
It is not up to her if they place the order on you it is the police that decide in Australia.
You both have to attend the court and the court will decide on whether to withdraw it or not. She can tell the court that she does not have any fear anymore and that she does not want to proceed but it is up to the court to decide.
Her Affidavit will be looked at in making the decision. If you do this again even if withdrawn the police will not be lenient again if they agree in court to withdraw it this time.
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