My name is ***** ***** I am a NSW Solicitor. Thank you for your question, and will do my best to assist you with your question. Please understand this is not legal advise but a guide to assist you.
I cannot tell you what you are worth because there is not enough information but I can tell you that it appears to be a long marriage and the law starts at 50%.
Because you are no benefits and not working if he works and if the children are under 18 years of age then you can get more than 50%.
The law will apply the following 4 steps
Step 1: Determine what the assets are and their value
This will include all assets and their value as at the day that you are dividing them. It does not matter whose name the assets are in, they will form part of the matrimonial pool. Superannuation entitlements are also included.
Step 2: Determine what contributions you and your Husband made towards the assets.
This includes a consideration of both financial and non-financial contributions. Consideration is given to what assets each of you brought into the marriage as well. The weight given to your initial contribution will be dependent upon the length of your relationship. The longer the relationship the less weight given to the initial contribution.
Step 3: What are each of your future needs.
Consideration is given to your respective ages, your comparitive income earning capacity as well as other factors.
IF these things don't balance equally for each spouse, then an adjustment is made in the percentages.
Step 4: Make an order that is just and equitable between both spouses
You are going to have to go to court and it is not a simple matter you both have to disclose all the assets and liabilities and if this is not done the court cannot make a decision.
You should be seeking legal assistance and speak to legal aid and see if they can assist.
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