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If you can get a copy of the letter you can use it to sue the boss fro defamation.
It is false and impacts on your reputation to the ex wife and possible to others if he is telling them as well.
You should contact a solicitor that practices in defamation law to send him a letter to retract the lies and if he does not that you will sue for defamation.
The law institute of Victoria can give you a referral
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