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because we have agreed to 50% custody and from the country this guy is from and the way he contacted her on social media i am really not happy with my kids sleeping under the same roof , so yes we have been seperated for over 12 months , but she has given me the forms and I havent signed , so now she tells me she has applied without my signature and we will have to go to court i suppose or some kind of mediation . Basically I am dragging my feet on the hope that this problem goes away in time , certainly happy with divorcing her but i just was hoping she would find some normal guy .basically i am angling the fact it is going this way is there anything for me to look out for ? The dragging of feet is mainly for visa stuff and she is obviously in a hurry to divorce and remarry to get this guy over here but i am just worried about the kids in the scheme of things
at the moment kids passorts are expiring so that is not immediate problem and I assume , the problem is all this stuff is not out in the open and is all a big secret but i have found out . I have no idea what her plans are really .
we just have agreement between us , its just I was loathed to sign a divorce with current agreement with so much up in the air , i nearly signed and then found out about all the visa applications etc so stopped in my tracks .
I realise I will sign and I will probably agree to same custody and I dont think she wants more , just I was wondering if I will look to be the beligerent and I will come out of this worse unless I get good reprentation . Financially I dont know if she has applied now , if it costs her more or me or whatever
all a bit of an unknown to me , I am assuming if we agree on the children and sign that together , I am probably just wondering is the fact I havent signed on asking and it is now getting taken to divorce court is there anything I have to look out for , obviously if things get worse and I want more custody or full custody I realise that escalates to a whole new level.