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Unfortunately, where one party signs an agreement and the other party, before signing alters or amends any information annexed to the agreement, even it does not change the botXXXXX XXXXXne, it then becomes uncertain whether the agreement is then binding.
This means in your case that whilst it is arguable that you have already both agreed because the settlement itself is not altered by a change in the asset schedule, if there is any reason why the change would have altered the parties position (i.e. because he would not have accepted the current arrangement if the amended superannuation figures had been previously disclosed to him), then a court might conclude the agreement was not concluded and hold it unenforceable. The duty of full and frank disclosure is quite strict so an agreement will not generally be held as enforceable if important information did not come to light until after it was signed.
I would suggest that you proceed as if it is binding, and if he accepts your payout under that agreement then over time it would become more and more difficult for him to challenge the validity of the agreement.
I trust the above assists your understanding.
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The superannuation figures were not changed from his original document - the only things that were changed were - removing commission for the sale of the house I am presently living in (but will need to sell as it is far too big) - he took the commission off the sale of the 2 rental properties he will retain in the deal - however, I know he has no intention of selling either - We took away rental he received since separation for one of the properties which he has never declared from the total loan payout figure. In saying that - No where on the documents has he ever declared that he has been receiving rental of approximately $50,000 for 3 properties. Surely this should be considered as extra income? Where should he have declared this? The figures he declared as Income were for 2010-2011 when he had 3 months off work. Surely on the Form 11 the figures should have been for at least the 2011-2012 Financial year - obviously the money earned in that time was far more than the previous year. Should the rental be included in that figure?
I still have not found out whether my ex has signed the Form 11 and other documents. His lawyer has not contacted my lawyer regarding the results of a meeting my ex and his lawyer had last Friday. Since then I have discovered that my ex has placed one of the properties which is solely in his name on the market. Today I have discovered that it is now under contract - He is selling it for $20K less than what was on the schedule in the Form 11. Should I have anything to be concerned about if he has not signed the Form 11 settlement agreement?
Sorry - Loads of questions - My lawyer has found out that my ex will not sign the Form 11.. She was informed that he is now going to a financial advisor. As in previous correspondence above, I agreed to his settlement figure, adjust some minor figures on his signed Form 11 that did not change the final settlement figure and now he is refusing to sign the document with the minor changes. His lawyer has pointed out that the final settlement figure has not changed but he will not sign. I am totally confused about what goes on now. He has supposedly gone back to his FIFO job for 3 weeks - again the process being drawn out. I cannot contact my lawyer until Monday. I signed the paperwork to try to move on and put this behind me. At the same time,I signed a BFA where we give each a token some of money and there is no come back - again I signed thinking that the Form 11 would be signed by him. Can I now ask that this be also voided if he wont sign the other documents? I anticipate I should have been able to receive some spousal maintenance but again signed the BFA in the hope that this would all be finished and I could move on. What happens now with the fact he has sold the rental house for $20K less than his original valuation and the Form 11 is incomplete? Should I look at putting caveat on the 2 properties we hold in joint names and another property of which I am guarantor for the loan? Could I have or can I still put a caveat on the house he his in the process of selling?
Thanks for your well explained response to my questions.
In what you have stated: "The fact your ex is now refusing to sign could mean he now wants to challenge the whole 'agreement' which you thought you had, or it could just mean he wants advice before he proceeds."
How does this work - it was his and his lawyers original proposal - as I said the base settlement figure has never changed. Just very minor changes - less than $20,000 not including his recent property sale at another $20k less than he expected - but for some reason he has accepted a very rushed deal?? How does this challenge of the 'whole' agreement go about - do they just come up with a whole set of new figures now that he has accepted the rushed deal?? He had advice before he made the first offer. Can he just keep making this go on for ever - He was the one who initially wanted to move on quickly with his defacto. I accept that I can ask my lawyer to look into Court proceedings - again this will be a very costly exercise - his prolonging the settlement is costing both of us dearly - money I cannot afford. Thanks
So what happens if I again begrudgingly accept his figures (I guess that is all too late now?) - I did change the fact that he said we had equal non financial and homemaker input. I have documented the non financial efforts and have witnesses to the fact of the renovations I have personally carried out on all of our properties past and present. In other words, I guess I should have just originally signed off on his document that contained misinformation from his side.
Yes that is obvious - but in the mean time he is now costing both of us further legal fees. What if he now comes up with a rediculous offer - I could not really have accepted anything greater than the amount we originally agreed too. I am now looking at the BFA which I didn't want to sign but did to try to finish this matter. I am wondering whether I can now go to medical reasons for spousal maintenance - again I earn one third of his wage; I have contracted Ross River which has now magnified Carpal Tunnel in one hand and possibly the other as well. I have a hip problem requiring cortisone injections, my line of work is very physical and totally mentally stressing (PE teacher), added to the emotional and mental anguish of this whole process I am obviously depressed and therefore my work is now and will continue to suffer. If this matter drags out further can I then look at his defacto's assets. They have been living together for 18 months. She stopped working for no reason almost a year ago (I am assuming they are using it as a ploy if I went down this line, to say that he is supporting her) - Hey what happens if I decide to stop working as well?
New Questions:
If a family member gifts a 50% share of a business (no money changing hands), does the individual receiving the gift need to declare it to anyone (eg. ATO) at any stage? Would there have had to be some form of Deed drawn up stating that the business was now owned by 2 people? Or can an individual just say I was gifted 50% of the business and therefore I have an Asset of xxx amount of dollars and my name is XXXXX XXXXX business? What are the legalities of gifted businesses?
Secondly, with regards XXXXX XXXXX: If in a defacto relationship then a marriage, both individuals received the compulsory 9% Super from their employers - is this Super taken into account in the Super split? To me it does not seem fair that each person worked separately for their Super and then one can take a portion of the other.
With the division of Super can the Super one individual bought in at the beginning of the relationship be removed from the Total Super an individual then attained while in the relationship?
Thanks heaps so far.
My next question: if my ex has stated that he has only a certain amount of Super and that is put on the schedule and I know for a fact that there is further Super that he has not declared what happens then. (At the moment, there is approximately 5 years of employer Super he has not declared). (The amount of Super is around $12,000 is it worth haggling over?). Can my lawyer request from his past employment companies a total amount of Super paid to him for the duration of his employment with them?
With regards XXXXX XXXXX sale of the house (in his name only recently, he should end up with around $100K before CG) what happens when originally that property was in the Assets and Liabilities equation on the Schedule of A & L? I'm at the point where I am starting to feel like I am going to lose out big time -
I know the judicial system does not take into account background information but he was the one that left me for a person he was having an affair with at his workplace..
Hello again - more questions.
I need to know what happens with regards XXXXX XXXXX made throughout our engagement/marriage. If my husband and I had a verbal agreement that he would pay for the repayments on our properties and also retain all of the rental income and that I would pay for the service fees on the property we were living in and pay for all the food, etc. why can he now say that he paid for everything. In a defacto and marriage relationship how is then decided that hey over 14 years he paid for this that and the other and you only paid for minor things.
He could have chosen not to continue to pay the repayments on the property we lived in while married and the money could have been taken from the Redraw facility of which I paid $170,000 into on the sale of my property, now he is saying he has paid for everything. Where do I stand.
Just because he chose to leave why does he think that everything goes back to who paid for what??
My Ex is now in the process of having a new transportable house placed on his defacto's 13 acre property. I am assuming he will use the funds received from the recent sale of one of the properties in our settlement agreement. If this is the case, what happens with that money that is supposedly tied up in our settlement proposals? Can he just go about spending the money he received as he wishes. Again after he accepted a rushed deal which was below the original estimated price on our settlement schedule how can he continue to seemingly hold all the aces?
He has not accepted his original deal - again the one where the base settlement figure has never changed and has not informed my lawyer what is happening - it has now been 3 weeks - he appears to be able to do what he wants and I am held captive to his moves unable to make future plans as all relies on the settlement.
Does he have to let my lawyer know that he is has sold a property? I only discovered it was for sale and under offer when looking through a real estate website.
My lawyer and I will hopefully be starting the Form 1 proceedings in the next couple of days. Settlement for the house he sold is mid June. Is there anyway I can get him to put the money into a trust fund until all is settled, or can he just do what he likes with that money?
Thanks again
New Questions:
Regarding Divorce: Initially my divorce was to take place early in April, I saw the notice in the newspaper and checked the Family Court Daily Court List on the net both indicated that the divorce was to take place. I recently received a note from the Family Court that it has been relisted for the end of May. This is confusing in itself and obviously stressful having to think about it all over again. However, my main question is that I am not sure of the divorce system and because there is still the property issues, an non-agreed settlement offer and a Binding Financial Agreement that I have revoked due to the other documents not being signed off on, where do I stand. Initially when the Application for Divorce papers came through my ex had ticked the box saying that there was NO existing orders, binding agreements, or undertakings to a court about family law, involving any of the parties. At that stage his lawyer had not sent through the documents about the settlement offer and also I was unaware there was a Financial Agreement being put in place - Where do I stand - Can I ring through to the Family Court and have the divorce stopped. (Not that I want to stop it) but wish to follow correct procedure and feel that I have misread the paper initially before I signed the acknowledgement.
I have found out my ex has changed the settlement figure to $10,000 more than the original deal - in questioning why - his lawyer informed me that the original offer did not take into account a property he is now saying he owned pre-cohabitation. I have proven factually, that he bought the property 10 months after cohabitation and the property was actually being paid off by the business we were running. (The documents are in the List of Disclosure he was sent).Surely this would be enough to have the original offer renewed?? Can he keep coming up with excuses to why it should be more??
Also, I worked in the business part time for 2 years without payment, and continued working in my regular place of employment part time as well to subsidise our living expenses and rates - can this factor be taken into account if this goes to court?? Or is there a set time period if I wished to pursue lost/unpaid wages??
Thanks again.
Just wondering if you can address a previous question re working in the business for no wages - see below -
"Also, I worked in the business part time for 2 years without payment, and continued working in my regular place of employment part time as well to subsidise our living expenses and rates - can this factor be taken into account if this goes to court?? Or is there a set time period if I wished to pursue lost/unpaid wages??"
One other question in regards XXXXX XXXXX - Is there any way my lawyer can track down my ex's employer Super contributions as what he is declaring $45,000 over the 12 years we were together does not really appear accurate especially seeing he was working in a highly paid job (obviously only receiving Super for 38-39 hours per week). (Again that does not even take into account Super earnt before we cohabitated). In the time we were together I have earnt roughly $85,000 in employer Super contributions. (Obviously this does not include my pre cohabitation Super, but are included in my Super assets on the A and L Schedule).
Just have a feeling I am not really getting what I should. (Hence I feel court may be the best option?).
Many thanks yet again.
Thanks for all of your advice so far.
Final question for today - (or maybe I need to speak directly to the banks involved).
If the property that my ex has just sold was being used as collateral for the two properties that are in joint names, where does my ex stand with the fact that property is no longer used as an asset against the other two properties?? In the past when he sold a property and owed me money ($40,000 one year into cohabitation) his financial adviser redistributed the money into paying off an overdraft for his business and half towards a previous mortgage on another property. Is that a bank decision or his decision where the money from the sale goes?
Thanks
Several more issues:
The property has been sold and I have never been informed and have no idea where the money has been distributed too - Is my ex husband required to let me know anything about the sale and distribution of that rental property?
Secondly and more importantly - Through my lawyer, I have informed my ex husband's lawyer that I did not accept his new offer (He had increased the original offer he made by an extra $10,000 and I have proven factually to my lawyer that his reason for the change is incorrect). His lawyer was informed 2 days after the new offer was sent which was around 6 weeks ago. It is becoming obvious that someone is not passing on information (my lawyer has sent me the receipts for the times that her emails were opened by his lawyer, proving that they were delivered). I have discovered that my ex is now complaining to his lawyer that I am taking far too long in replying - which is obviously building the animosity he has with me. What can I do if I know that his lawyer has the information and is delaying or not relaying this information to him? Obviously this is costing me extra in lawyer fees (as it is him) waiting for this case to develop. I was prepared to start a Form 1 at least 7 weeks ago but his lawyer's assistant asked my lawyer to hold off because the new offer was going to be sent.
Thanks for any assistance in this continuing saga.
Many thanks - I'm still trying to get my head around the whole dilemma.
Just checking with regards XXXXX XXXXX of the property. At this stage no final sign off has taken place as my ex is still trying to get the extra money however, his lawyer has not forwarded the fact that I have rejected his last offer. I rejected the offer around May 23. The figure for that specific property has always been around $350K presumed sale but then when it sold for $330K (quick sale) he changed his figures on the settlement schedule to that price and then requested $10K more (stating it was for a property he had forgot to include in his pre-cohabitation calculations - I have already proven this property was post cohabitation). So can he then keep selling off properties (only one left in his name solely) for less than what they are worth? (ie quick sales). Thanks
I semi understand these issues - however, as I was saying when he made his first declaration of his pre cohabitation assets this property was not even in his possession - he bought it 8 months after cohabitation. What he is saying is he forgot to include it in his pre-co asset estimation when he did not even have the property - thereby, trying to make it look like he had more in his pre cohabitation assets when comparing his assets to mine. I feel he is trying to recoup his loss on the recent sale by adding an extra $10K on his new settlement statement.
Just another thought - he had a business which I worked for part time without payment on cohabitation. One of the realestate properties, a loan for buying a half share of the business building and a motor vehicle were being paid for by the business and he was also receiving a minimal wage from the business - where do I stand in this situation or does it all just get put in the wash of things. He has retained the vehicle and business property/building. I just feel that I have been ripped off as it seems I worked for nothing and he retained all of the properties and I'm still paying out 6 figures.
New developments - my lawyer has recently received information stating that the offer is still as he has sated. They have also stated that they confirm the property sale was 320K. I have investigated through Landgate (property sales) that this property in question sold for 330K - again they appear to be lying. The property sold in mid June and they state the funds will be placed into an interest bearing account - I cannot see why after 3 weeks they are not already in an interest bearing account - can I question that and also ask for an account statement?
He is also now saying the work up north is too much for him and he is struggling in the heat - Again he has always wanted to be up north and was continually pressing for us to move back there - now with his new defacto he wants to come back to the city.
He is making this his final offer (yet again) and will then commence proceedings - I would be happy to go to the Family Court (I realise that the lawyers will be the ones that benefit in the end) - I am totally annoyed with his outright lies - I am already paying around $20K more than I should, that was when I accepted the first offer of 100K but as you know he is now after more - all be it an extra 10K.
Finally and I think we have touched on this previously - now that they are in a full on defacto relationship and he has been living and putting money into her property, will his defacto's assests get taken into account at some stage in this settlement? Obviously if he was to split from this relationship he should have access to part of her assets?
My lawyer is out of the country at the moment so I am just trying to do some more back ground research.
Thanks again
Hello - the settlement took place already so he has had the money for 3 plus weeks - his lawyer says that my ex is going to put it in an interest bearing account - Do I have the right to know why it didn't get put straight into an interest bearing account over 3 weeks ago?
New point he has now stopped paying the interest portion of the loan over the house I am living in (the house I wish to retain with a loan) - hence money is being taken from the paid in advance funds (all the money I placed there from the sale of my previously self owned property) to pay off the loan meaning that obviously the loan is going up in price. Where do I stand with regards XXXXX XXXXX fact he has all that extra money from the sale of the other house? I realise we are still negotiating a settlement price which as I have said I agreed to and now he is trying to get $10K more.
Can he keep just changing the repayments to the bank without informing me? Last time I nearly got caught out with a non repayment fee because he had not informed me of the changes he had made.
Thanks again with assistance to my drawn out saga
Thanks - I appreciate all of your advice -
Do you have an answer to the last question I posed regarding being informed. Have copied it below
"Can he keep just changing the repayments to the bank without informing me? Last time I nearly got caught out with a non repayment fee because he had not informed me of the changes he had made."
or is he allowed to just do what he wants without letting anyone know?
Thanks
Back again.
Looks like court action - I offered a further 5K to go halfway between the first offer I accepted and the offer he changed the settlement too. This is the second time I have gone beyond what I had intended to settle on. I feel that I am making all the effort. His lawyer said that my ex will not accept any further offers apart from the one he has now stated.
When it comes to court, where might I stand with trying to negotiate and finalise this settlement when he leaves no room for movement. Again - he sells a house as discussed previously in a very short time period for 20-40K less than the advertised sale price. He has told his lawyer that he sold it for 10K less than what he actually received (I don't think he told his lawyer he had already removed the realestate commission). He has not placed the money for the sale in an account that I know of - can my lawyer request where it has been place? Again I requested that it be put into a trust fund and my lawyer agreed but obviously he has his own agenda.
He has put his settlement price up because he forgot to add a property pre cohabitation which as I said he did not have anyway and I have discussed with you previously. He has drawn this whole process out beyond where it should have gone.
In general, he has managed to cost me a lot more expense in lawyer fees by drawing this process out and coming up with new ploys. (Obviously it is also costing him I would assume). Is it fair that he can keep dragging this out. Now we have the legal fees to follow with this going to court.
I am about to start the proceedings tomorrow (Friday) by filling out the Form 1. Apart from the obvious, can you tell me why I have to fill out a Form 13 - Why is the financial report as of now and not of when we separated at the end of 2011?
With the Form 13 I can't workout why the Superannuation is taken from now or is it at separation. Obviously we will both have more and I cannot see why he should be able to claim on what I have personally worked for. The whole Superannuation factor annoys me as I (as did he) only received the 9% Employer paid Super - why should we be entitled to each others Super when we personally worked for it?
Any information would be helpful before I start on this epic journey.
Thanks
Hello yet again - another query.
Think I have discussed some of this previously. In the early stages of our relationship, I paid for a boat for my ex and placed the amount on my home loan obviously it would have then also attracted interest over the 6 years - he promised to pay me back but did not. He also traded that boat in (received $33K) and bought a new boat for another expense of 50K which came from the profit of the sale of a property we had total of boat $84K. I obviously feel that I therefore put $25K towards that boat as well. In all with interest I feel I have forked out around $84K - (depreciation on these boats has been huge - he has only put $25K towards them).
He is now saying that he continued to pay the mortgage on the property I am presently residing in (and wish to keep). When he left we did not have an agreement about who was paying for what and fortunately for me he did continued to pay the loan until recently. He is now using that against me saying he has put in an extra $55K since he left. He has never considered what I paid out initially for what he is calling his boat. (I was too naive to realise I should have requested the boats be registered in both names).
In my reasoning, I feel that perhaps the two incidents have counteracted each other - what he owed me from the beginning and what he has paid for the property. Is there any way of using this in my affidavit and in court?
Thanks
Hello
Not sure if you received my last set of questions? However, I have now started the beginning of the proceedings with the Family Court.
Since doing that I have now heard that he is going to say that he will be finishing work at the mine site he is at. Hence he will say he now will have no income. He has asked his company to write a letter to confirm the fact that he will finish at that site shortly. His company would probably deploy him somewhere else but that is only an assumption I am making. The mining industry is slowing down.
Can he now say he has no work so he can't pay for anything. Surely he would have to look for work else where.
He stopped paying the mortgage on the house I live in (mortgage in joint names) about 5 months ago - I cannot afford to pay it either and therefore at the moment the redraw facility is being eaten into.
Where do I now stand that he says he is finishing work. Does he have to find another job? If he doesn't will this mean I will feel the brunt and come out worse when this goes to court?
Thanks
More developments. My lawyer has now informed me that my ex husbands lawyer wants further documents. I understand I am obliged to give them what they request if I have the documents. It is now 3 weeks till the first hearing and I have not had a Respond to my Form 1 - etc. I have asked that I be informed which documents by this Tuesday - surely they know what they want. Can I make this demand seeing the hearing is so close??
My lawyer has also now informed me they are unavailable for the hearing as they have just realised they have a trial case on the same day. They have suggested that they use a stand in lawyer to represent me on the day and that my ex's lawyer will now be attending by video link up. Does my ex have to attend the video link up as well??
He is now doing a total turn around and is after a $250K payout in his favor. (think this equates to a 55/45 split in his favor). Initially it was going to be and we agree to the 100K before he change d his mind to $110K then it became $120K now $250K. (My lawyer has worked the split should be around 69/31 in my favor) I am totally confused now.
Should I be looking at employing a new lawyer given that I will not have the same rapport with this stand in lawyer. Is it too late to request going to a new lawyer and postponing the hearing (if that is possible).? My ex's lawyer has had all of my information - Form 1; Financial statement; Affidavit and MOC since the end of July. My lawyer has only just heard from his lawyer today regarding the extra documents they want and as stated haven't said what they want).
Thanks for the last pieces of wisdom. Very helpful.
I have emailed my lawyer several times and have had no response. I keep asking whether they have sent my requests for an updated list of my ex's Duty of Disclosure to his lawyer and as mentioned earlier what documents they require. It is now only 2 and a half weeks from the hearing. I cannot understand that one minute they say they want to view more documents but then after 5 days still cannot tell my lawyer what they want. Can I personally ring my ex's legal firm and request an appointment to view the files they have? In a piece of correspondence received before the informal conference last year they mentioned that the files could be viewed by appointment, or does my lawyer have to organise this??
In the D of D I have noticed that there is less than 10 pieces of correspondence between my ex, his financial adviser (his uncle) and myself. That appears strange as after 13 years there must be more and would all be relevant with respect to buying and selling properties etc. He would have had to have gone to his FA to get some of the Sale and Purchase documents. Can I subpoena (no doubt too late to organise before the hearing) a copy or ask for a list of all those documents? I have already asked my lawyer to question that point and see why they have so few documents - (I have copies of some but would like to see the whole file that his FA would have in his possession).
Again I realise my lawyer is busy but am now losing confidence in them as the time gets closer to the hearing and I cannot get answers to my queries.
Many thanks again for any advice.
Can I ask how often you contact your lawyers and how long they have been unresponsive?
When you call or write to them do you get any explanation for the lawyers unavailability, and have they found you a 'stand in' lawyer for your hearing or not?
I had a discussion with my lawyer last Friday - after they requested I contact them which I did - then was informed of the updates of further documents requests, the new offer, etc. also they they were unavailable and would find a stand in for the hearing. I have not heard from them since. I have sent 2 emails Monday and 1 yesterday - I want to get organised and find out why they have not included a lot of documents as I mentioned that the Financial Advisor would have in his possession. Also what they have included in their updated version of the List of Disclosure. I have had no correspondence from my lawyer so have obviously not been informed why there has been no reply. In the past, a reason has been given for delayed contact - but that has been within 24 hours.
Thanks again
I am a little concerned about this new stand in lawyer - A friend of mine has just informed me that this same lawyer was also supposed to be their stand in lawyer (someone she had very little confidence in) in a similar case. She was going to have to pay them around $2500 up front. She informed her own lawyer that money was an issue and a week before he managed to get the hearing changed so he could represent her. (His charge was only $1000). I am in a similar situation - $2500 is a huge expense for me when I will have little rapport or confidence in someone I do not know. How can he charge so much more that her own lawyer for the same thing? (I realise lawyers charge different amounts depending on their expertise but that sounded extravagant).
I also find it very strange that this lawyer was the one that my ex's lawyer was going to use as they did not want to attend in person as the hearing is some 2 hours from their office. Needless to say - my lawyer would have had to have traveled for a similar time. We have already traveled last year to his lawyers office some 6 hours round trip for my lawyer and 4 for myself to attend an informal conference we agreed to and ended up going nowhere after 4 hours.
Generally, how much does a Hearing cost with out lawyer fees attached? Can I ask for a change in the hearing date due to the cost of this new lawyer - money I cannot really afford due to my lawyer not being available. It does not seem fair to be charged such a high price and have very little confidence in this new lawyer.
Thanks again
Hello
I am very confused - for the Hearing on Monday the video link up is now only going to be a telephone link up - my ex's lawyer is now going to ask for 21 days extension.They have still not indicated the documents that they suggested they may want but could not inform my lawyer of which ones they required. If they get the 21 days which I cannot understand how they can after having our documents for almost 8 weeks and a List of Documents of Disclosure since Nov 2012 - when will I ever get to see the Form 1 Response?? My lawyer has now informed me that this will no doubt go to Mediation even though both lawyers want it to go direct to a Conciliation Conference - I am so confused by what happens here. Apparently this willt then go back to court/hearing/mediation/conference by around early Dec. My lawyer is now unavailable for a week due to a trial in the city so I cannot get information easily.
My ex is now going for $250K -
Can you tell me what constitutes a long/medium/short relationship. Initially my ex's lawyer stated that this was a short to medium length relationship (and stated that in such cases greater significance is placed on the parties financial contributions), also that "it appears that the parties initial contributions were roughly equal, but his client made the greater financial contributions during the relationship by way of income" (my income was also used but not to pay off mortgages - of which he received all rental returns) (The initial 2.5 years we lived off my part-time wage while as mentioned previously, I worked with him in his business for the other 3 days - surely these are contributions I have made) - They are going to say that my initial contributions where my assets of 80/20 in my favor) have no relevance to the case as it is a long term relationship. (Very confusing one minute they say one thing then they say another). We began living together in mid 1999. Does the defacto relationship kick in after 2 years from then? We did not marry until early 2008 and he left in late 2011. In all we were together 12.5 years -so does the 2 years come off that before we could be considered to be defacto? Leaving a total of around 7 years de facto and 3.5 years married. 10.5 years??
I now feel like I have been taken for an absolute ride - as mentioned previously, he was married/divorced, in a new defacto relationship prior to meeting me for 2 years, single for 3 months - this so looks like a serial man at work. He is now 2 years into his new relationship - is that now deemed defacto?
Thanks again.
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