Since you seem to be offline, ill leave a response here which we can discuss later on.
Well from what you are describing there are a couple of things which can be the cause of this fluid coming out of your penis. However i can reassure you that this is UNLIKELY to be due to HIV or any serious STD. This sort of siuubstance is usually the consequence of a simple bacterial infection which is infecting either the urinary tract or even the prostate or the regions of the tested where semen is produced. This is a common infection which can affect many men during their lives. It is NOT necessarily tied to the condom which slipped during intercourse.
It is possible that you have a low grade infection of the prostate or the epididymis which can cause this sticky substance to be secreted after you urinate and if this is the case then a urine test as well as a urethral swab would be diagnostic here. If needed an abdominal and plevic ultrasound can be done to determine the underlying cause. Another cause for this can be simple uretheritis which is an infection of the urethra itself, it is not necessary for you to have burning pain in cases of urethritis and many a time the only symptom which is present is a slight discharge. So if this is the case then again a swab would be diagnostic followed by antibiotic therapy.
Now the stomach cramps can be explained with a number of other issues mainly your anxiety, anxiety has been known to cause severe stomach cramps and even diarrhea in many individuals, This does NOT point toward any STD or HIV and i think once your anxiety is brought under control the digestive symptoms should subside as well. Secondly, ypou could also have a simple viral infection which is causing the stomach cramps which would subside on its own within 2-3 weeks at the most.
I would suggest that you contact your doctor and discuss with him the above possibilities but let me reassure you, that the chances of you having ANY STD or HIV are EXTREMELY LOW, almost zero infact i would say zero in the presence of negative tests would be zero.
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