Thank you for the reply.
Although you had good erections and have enough semen but the main problem is of orgasm(climax) & very little feeling or numbness during the orgasm.
Its most common causes are:suboptimal amounts of testosterone in the body,stress and anxiety,depression,too much alcohol consumption,some medical conditions like cardiovascular disease,diabetes,certain medications like anti depressants,changes in hormone levels.Stress & anxiety is the most common cause.
You need following tests:
-Dynamic infusion cavernosometry(DIC) and cavernosography (DICC),
-Nocturnal tumescence test
The symptoms you are having of weak bladder & unable to hold the urine like you were doing it in the past can be due to a condition called urinary incontinence.It is loss of bladder control. Most bladder control problems happen when muscles are too weak or too active.
You may be prescribed with anti chollinergics medications to suppress involuntary bladder contraction of any etiology.Other medications like,imipramine,drugs that relax muscles, helping the bladder to empty more fully during urination.
So my best advise for you is to make an appointment with your urologist to have these tests done so as to know the exact underlying cause & then treatment will be done accordingly.
Hope this helped
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