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I had a girl friend she love me & i love her but we cant

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i had a girl friend she love me & i love her but we cant stay together b/c i cant get sex to her she isnt happy on ours sex realation ship i cant stay long time on sex like i do sex but after 30 second it common out my sperm i feel sad by that time i want stay long minute but i cant i tried a lot of times to stay long minute but cant i didnt ask before doctor its my first time to ask doctor please please help me i want stay with my girl & i want marry & i want get baby i am 25 years old now. I started sex late after 22 i need medicine god bless you thankew.
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Urology
Expert:  Dr. David replied 1 year ago.

This is Dr. David

this is called premature ejaculation and is not treated with medications first

it is treated with sex therapy exercises first.

http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/basics/treatment/con-20031160

there is a pause and squeeze of the head of the penis technique which can slow down when you ejaculate

I would try this exercise with your partner first.

there are also topical numbing lidocaine creams which you can buy over the counter which can help decrease your sensation and help you last longer.

you can also wear a condom which can help decrease your sensation and help you last longer.

if these don't work, there are medications such as SSRI anti-depressants which can help delay your ejaculation.

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