If you do not think you writing a formal letter to him will register with him then I would go and see a local litigation solicitor to get them to write a letter before action to him. This would give the background, ask for the money (or a repayment plan proposal) from him within 7 days of the date of the letter. Sometimes a letter from a solicitor's firm does the trick and he will engage with you without the stress of litigating. It should cost £40 approx.
If he does not then you can either instruct the solicitor to prepare and issue the claim or do it yourself through www.moneyclaim.gov.uk it's pretty cheap and very easy to use - it's pretty much made for your type of claim.
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Nothing I do will work because he tries to manipulate me.
I don't want to take legal action but no approach I take seems to work so a warning letter mght be the way to go.
My problem is that he said to me 'bring it on bitch - take me to court and i'll make sure you don't see a penny' :-(
He tries to talk his way out of everything and I know he will try every trick in the book to get out of it. That's what I'm scared of, how it will go if we do go to court and I get nothing back because he's charmed his way out of it. He nearly lost his driving licence last year for speeding at 129 mph but talked his way out of it (the judge was female and he turned on the charm) - he really thinks he is above the law and can get away with anything.
He doesn't sound very pleasant.
If he does not respond to the letter then you will have no option but to issue if you want your money back. If you have it in writing from him that they money was to be paid back the it's difficult to see how he could talk his way around this - you have a strong case and I wouldn't be scared off.
If you do not get judgement then you will be liable for his legal fees in defending the claim so before issuing I would take what evidence you have that they money would be paid back to the solicitor writing your letter and ask them for their specific opinion on how persuasive it will be to Court. Anything in writing is a very good start though.
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I have letters, txts agreeing. I'll put as much stuff together as I can.
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