Yes I am a UK citizen.
I just wondered is it as simple as getting married in Thailand or another country for example and filling out documents etc... applying for her visa etc....?
I mean, she is currently studying for her business degree in jakarta etc...
How likely is it that she can one day live in the UK if we get married outside of Indonesia and the UK?
Well this is the thing. Why I asked you because the requirements are very strict. It says I must have been living with her, paying bills etc... with her. How can I do this with her when she cannot even get a visa to UK.
I don't understand. If you are unable to answer this can you tell me someone who can please sir?
I'm literally running out of options.
Ok I understand thank you for telling me this it really does help.
Well that is encouraging in regards XXXXX XXXXX provide that information.
Her parents tbh would not allow her to marry me, so Indonesia and UK are out of the question to get married in.
So you would be confident that if we got married within Thailand and did the procedure correctly etc...
Then applied for a spouse visa, we could then live in the UK together most likely?
Also she is concerned that her father can cancel her passport or documents because apparently he 'knows' people. I beg to differ but she thinks the most extreme things. So could her parents cancel any of the documents she so needed to come to the UK without her permission? Thank you so much.
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Are you able to provide me with a link in regards XXXXX XXXXX or not he can do anything about it. I'm sure he could do something about it illegally but I am not sure where to find this information if you could help me I would be incredibly grateful.
I already meet the financial requirements and the relationship is completely genuine etc...of course.
So for example if we got married in Thailand and performed the correct legal procedure in regards XXXXX XXXXX marriage certificates and whatever else is needed then would we have a good chance of being able to live together.
Have you dealt with many cases similar to mine in the past also and how successful are they usually?
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for the reply...
I went and looked on the UK Border Agency website and it says this in regards XXXXX XXXXX for a visa to live together with your partner...
Insurmountable obstacles means that we would look at the seriousness of any difficulties that would prevent you and your partner from living in another country, and whether those difficulties could be overcome.
Is this something you feel I should be concerned about, the main issue being her parents really do not like me but I really do not see how they should be able to do anything about it as we are both adults and have all the legal documentation to my knowledge.
Sure the authorities will not prevent us from being together just because her parents dis like me so much?
One more thing.... I paid for a £71 monthly membership and am currently on my free trial is this how you are able to answer my questions and there are no additional charges? Thank you!
Thank you again.
Ok if you could find out and tell me that would be most useful and incredibly helpful.
It's just as you may know in Indonesian culture they are a rather subservient attitude towards their partners often neglecting their own happiness to keep their parents happy. I cannot judge their culture but it does baffle me at times. I tell the girl to follow her heart and do what makes her happy, parents or not you cannot please everybody.
Yes I believe if we were to get married within Indonesia and maybe the UK you need the parent's permission which is why we consider getting married in a different country to get around this rule/law.
Is it best to get in touch with an Indonesian law firm/lawyer who specialises in such areas regarding the marriage and visa application process of two adults wanting to live in the UK?
Thank you so so much, you have been very helpful! I will look forward to hearing from you.
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