I am a Hungarian woman, I live here 16 month.
Here is my bankaccount with my partner's address and I got a paper I want to vote or don't.
We are argued and he want to kick me withouth money... etc.
He can do that? Thank you!
He are threatening me, mumiliate me and a few times hit me, too.
I am Hungarian, EU Citizen. Not more.
When I arrived here in UK I gave up my journalist work at Hungarian Public Television (like BBC here) and I was a presenter in a radio. I have two Bsc and one Msc.
I was in love, I gave up everything and I moved here.
We haven't common children but my partner has 4. He told me if I got pregnancy I have to go back Hungary with my bastard. (Earlier he told me if I want we will have a common children.) Nowadays his opinion changed but we don't use contraception yet... (He outrages me often because I am 40y.o. and I haven't kid. I had ovary tumor... for example that's the reason. but if he wants to hurt me it's also a reason.)
The 2 youngest with us regularly but the two older also with us often.
I cleaned the house, I cooked sometimes, I was shopping food for all family… etc.
I don’t feel I got back love. He gives me money but everybody can see in my bank account. I spent to food for the family. 2-3 times I was at hair-dresser.
(I have bank account because my partner told at the bank I live here permanently. He pays more house tax because I live here – I saw the paper -, and I got a form than I can vote here. I think because I live here permanently. I have home doctor here and I give free medicine for my thyroid problem because I live here permanently but I don’t know the rules.)
A lot’s of time my partner told at the dinner table I am a bloody foreign or f**king Hungarian.
A few times the kids told it’s not fair.
My partner has alcohol problem.
He loose the temper, he is shouting and happened when hit me.
I told my partner “don’t drink to much” when the kids are here. He was a few times that drunk: I gave food to the kids or I went to the school early morning with them.
I am here until last June… Every month in the last six-seven months when I have to pack and he says I have to go back Budapest because I am a fat ass or stupid cow… And I am lazy.
I don1t say I am a brilliant housekeeper but I am working here in the house or around a hose lot. He didn’t see it.
I lost my self-esteem, I am depressed a few time and I have defenselessness what he knows and he uses.
Today morning he was shouting with me because I applied a job what is 200 miles far from here. He was threatening me if I will work there I loose them.
Never-ever spoke with me a person like my partner… I am bitch, I came from barbarian country, he reviles my country Hungary… etc. I don’t want to write what he says often. Here in this letter I used enough scurrility what I am shaming!)
no because I gave up my work in Hungary.
I am ready to split but I don't think my more than one year work (and a lot of humiliating, hurting, and the few hit) isn't a subject of contract.
If I see I have chance to get money when I move out: I move. I haven't money now, I am in a trap.
He is a rich person. He told me earlier he pays a course for me (chiropodist) and when we split gives money. 6-8-10.000 phounds.
Of course now he doesn't want to pay only kick me to the street.
I wrote earlier your answe was excellent.
And what happened today? He called the police and kicked me to the street.
The police told me I am not tenant.
Oh, really? I am his partner (Or I was...) I lived there more than 1 year...
Is it the law? Who protect me????
you told me, he can not drop me to street. Unfortunetlly yesterday ha call the police and they forced me to move from there,
thank you for your answer. I understand but I' like to ask, wether my partner can drop me now immediately to the road and then I have right for apply in writing
there are no lelgal base at all (regardless I or he wrote any notice) to drop me out without taking care me?
the last question:
is it was enough strong reason to complaine about the police action and his action as he called behind my back the police on Sunday evening. And policeman told me I must leave the house now because the relationship is over today (on Sunday) and the owner doesn't want me to be here.
Thank you Claire!
I got tip because really thank you your help.
How couls I contact you personally?
Or if it isn't possible, the next time how can I choose you here in this page?
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