Hi Claire -
re. the lump sum from the divorce -
"£5,877 into the parties joint savings account (name & acc no) to be used for the funding of the children's further education"
(I've never had access to this account)
Re. ongoing payments -
"...respondent and petitioner will retain the jointly owned (Life investment plan, no xxx) on the basis that the funds therein shall be used for the further education of the children of the family. The monthly premiums shall be paid for as to one third by the petitioner and two thirds by the respondent."
(Again, I've never had access to this account and have therefore paid my third into a separate savings account. From what my ex has said, all funds are in the same account - not sure which of the above).
Both children are now over 18, and the elder of the two (20) is not going into further education. They both need access to the funds, one for legitimate reasons to support his education, the other for perfectly reasonable non-educational use. My ex-husband seems reluctant to part with any of it unless used solely for direct payment of tuition fees.