Dear Claire

There are no children involved and we were married in December 2010. Since then she was drunk at least every 2 months and repeatedly embarrassed me. Once she walked into a busy Accident and Emergengy department while I was working as a doctor. It did no good on my CV. The other time she was admitted to the intensive care due to an injury related to her drunkenness. My daughter has a 6 months old child and she was drunk and aggressive towards her and my child. It happened 2/12 ago and now at 60 years I feel very desppondent.

I even started www.beutewellness to help her to get an interest in something but the business is not worth anything due to her lack of interest and drunkenness. It cost me at least £10,000 to get it running.

I have no assets, and if I do sell my house I will have no money left.

I could declare myself insolvent as I have a few years left to continue with my work, and to save for my pension. I am a Dutch citizen and worked most of my life in Africa with the very poor - and there I worked for charity. I have been working in the UK for 11 years.

My wife does not work and she is 50 years old. She lost her previous work due to drinking.

She wishes to rent a house of £500 and a weekly salary of £100/week

Well I do locum work and could earn £4000 / month if I work hard and she has no income

thanks Jan

I have no assets - spend most of my life working with the very poor