I've been seperated from my partner for 3 and a half yrs. We have 2 children together. From the moment we split up he has been controlling what i do with my life . He see's his children every other wkend but if we argue he will not see them. He only pays maintenance when it suits him. I am not allowed a boyfriend, he has threatened me with violence(beating current partner up if his car is on my drive when he drives past). He calls me names, calls me a bad parent, wants to know everything about what i do in my spare time. He smokes cannabis every day and i have text mesages from him he will stop if i help him come off them and will be a decent father.He scares me and i cant get on with my life. My children are 5 and 4 and don't want to spend time with him. What can i do?
Province/Country relating to question : England
I've tried to let him have as much access to the children,have waited for maintenance for wks/mnths at a time. I've tried to be civil to him and he is fine (in the right mood)
Does he have a court order in place for maintenance and contact?
No he doesnt have a court order its a private agreement
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