Thanks for your reply.
I'm afraid that the liability in these loans will be joint and several, which means that in the event of default the lender can take action against either or both of you for any arrears. I know this seems very unfair but it would have been disclosed in the pre-contract documentation provided to you before taking the loan.
It is the responsibility of both of you to see that the repayments are let because they can take action against both of you.
If there was an agreement that you would share equal repayment of the debt and he does not pay and he ignores your informal attempts to resolve the issue then you should instruct a solicitor to write a letter to her (cost £50 + vat approx) explaining the conseqences of enforcement action being taken - eg. country court judgement, their fees being added to the amounts owed, bad credit record, inability to raise credit in the future. If a person is at all interested in remianing solvent then this should be reasons enough for them to engage with you to see that the repayments are maintained.
Any agreement you had with your expartner does not affect the lenders ability to take action against both of you if you default I'm afraid.
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