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Unfortunately, you can only get your CA points removed by complying with the requirements of California. Even though you would be permitted to have your demerits removed based on VA law, a VA court would not be able to inform California to remove the points from the CA DMV.
If you take a California-approved driving safety class, you could still have the violation cleared from your record as long as you haven't attended a driving safety class for California in the past 18 months.
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