Thank you for using Just Answer for your needs. Also thank you for owning a Toyota Tacoma and actually taking care of it. I wish we had more customers like you.

As for your questions... Are these reasonable services to have done and should the OEM struts/shocks be replaced?

They are reasonable and the shocks/struts should be replaced around the mileage. The ride feeling is usually what we hear about when they are about to give in to their age and usefulness of life. The only item I did not see on your list is that when you do the timing belt, you might be prepared for the water pump and seals. The seals most likely will not show any signs of oil seepage as the the water pump may have some coolant showing but now would be the time because it will be awhile before you have to go back in that far into the engine.

Also an alignment would be a good idea when you get the shocks/struts replaced.

Genchi