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What happens to army personnel who cheats on his wife with

What happens to army personnel who cheats on his wife with another married woman whose husband is of higher rank in the marines?JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: I asked his command. They told me since I brought it up they had to bring that to higher ups and it's beyond their control. They could not tell me moreJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: My husband found out and we are divorcing. What will jay to my husband and the other man?

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I was married for 15 years while I was in the USAF and then

I was married for 15 years while I was in the USAF and then divorced. The court ordered SBP for my former spouse along with part of my retirement pay. I then remarried and retired after 26 years. There was no record of SBP for my second wife, I think since my former wife was already getting SBP. Then I divorced again about 9 years after retirement and there was no mention of SBP in the court order. Now, 11 years after the second divorce, my second wife says she wants SBP as a missed asset. Confirm that she was not eligible and/or it's too late to do anything about it. Thanks

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My wife has just retired medically from her base. We were at

My wife has just retired medically from her base. We were at the pix getting a few things and as my wife checked out I was looking at some items and notice she had finished I joined her and we headed for the exit. Just as we stepped through the doors the alarms went off so we backed up the cart and signaled a clerk who came over and was checking our cart. A man walked up identified him self as store securit. He asked my wife what was in her purse and she told him the normal stuff plus 2 pair of reading glasses she bought in the back of the store when we were getting new glass protective screens put on our phones. She had set them on the counter with the screen boxes. The clerk rang up everything so we thought and I took the boxes and she grabbed her phone and the reading glasses plus the receipt from the clerk. We still had more shopping to do and when we were done we went to a clerk and checked out I browsed alittle while my wife checked out. That's when we headed out. After I explained to the gentleman what had happened he was nice and said for me to take them over and pay for them so I got the glasses from him and started to go pay when he said is ever thing in the cart paid for and I said yes it is and so did the clerk and he said let's see the receipt which my wife handed to him. He looked the cart over and said what about these to home security cameras and I said yes we did and turned to my wife who was going to see if they would price match them and said she forgot they were in the cart. I had put them in the back of the cart in the main basket when we found a small copier I had been wanting was on sale so I stuck it up against the cameras which blocked their view. When my wife who is 100% disabled lifted the cooler up for the clerk to scan it she swung it out with her good arm from the back of the cart it blocked her view of the cameras so they did not get rang up. That's when the MP's were called and she was charged with larsany. We told them we would gladly pay for the items and apologized for the mistake. Any way they took her down to the military police as I followed. Neither my wife or I have ever been in trouble with the law but it didn't seem to matter. What will happen to my wife if they convict her. This was truly an Horst mistake.JA: OK. To minimize me, please click the down arrow at the top right corner of this box.Customer: I'm sorry did you receive what I wrot sirJA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No she is retiredJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: Does this cost me anything?

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My BN CO gave me an article 15 for adultery with another

My BN CO gave me an article 15 for adultery with another soldier's wife while he was away on a training exercise. My Company CO gave me a notice that they are trying to kick me out with a chapter 14-12C and then detain me and send me to Leavenworth. I have 9 months left in the army and have also recently discovered that I have a heart condition that requires surgery (I have tests next month that will tell me how severe it is). Is there anything you suggest that I do?JA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: The adultery? Yes, everyone in my whole unit is aware.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I confessed to my NCOs that I committed adultery with the service member's wife

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My son is in the army he is e5 stationed in fort ,ga, he is

Hi my son is in the army he is e5 stationed in fort Stewart,ga , he is in process of getting divorced and has a 5!yesr old child. His wife left him while he was overseas last February 2016, she resides with her mother and sister in Boston, right now he is paying child support paying her cell phone and child's daycare of 160 monthly. She right now has filed a complaint with the Va and it has gone to his commander stating he owes her 7000 in back bha can this be trueJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: He has spoken with jag and previously with his commander who is sdaetiuannarticle 15 on him without getting all the derailsJA: Has anything been officially filed?Customer: No he has an attorney here in Boston but I don't think he knows much about military lawJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: nees to know if she is legally entitled to his bha

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Have a reservist who has been married over ten years but

Hello,JA: Hi. What is your issue regarding?Customer: have a reservist who has been married over ten years but there was a civilian break. Trying to determine if the 10/10 rule will be satisfied. Married in month two of a year where he received 1 year of qualified service. Similarly will be divorced toward end of a year when he will receive a qualifying year. If both those years are included the 10/10 rule will be satisfied. How does DFAS consider that calculation. Does it look at points accrued in the retirement year during the marriage or does it simply consider if the marriage is within a qualifying year at the end of the retirement year?JA: Because laws vary from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: MassachusettsJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: noJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: no

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My fiance has gotten permanent personal leave. He is a

My fiance has gotten permanent personal leave. He is a general & will receive almost 1 million in pay.But we need to pay 10k in 9 days in order for this agreement to take place. There is a family emergency. Theres a dear family member dieing of stage 3 cancer. Im not his wife yet but the military is imposing impossible guidelines with little notice: 1 week.I cant afford the amount and after requesting the leave & paperwork..i have a short time limit in order to bring my family together. Loans do not apply as we are not married yet.Please help to bring him home as it is approved. Afterall, it could be taken out of his 1 million compensation.Thank you for your time

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Question about a US Army military unit during the Korean War

Question about a US Army military unit during the Korean War era: On my father-in-law's DD214 it says his most significant duty assignment was "1666 CO B 48th ARM BN." He was on active duty from 22JUL52 to 08JUL54. At least for part of his time he was stationed in Germany. His wife remembers him serving as a "Medical Technician." As a civilian he was a Pharmacist Apprentice in his father's drugstore. I haven't been able to figure out what the '1666' means, but I'm guessing he was in Co B of the 48th Armored Medical Batallion. Can you corroborate that and add more to it. I would like as full a story on his service in Germany, etc. to pass onto his family, but also nail down the unit/s he was in so I can find any appropriate patches. I've already applied for his military records, but because of a massive file desctruction in the 70s, all I could get was his DD214. Thank you.

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Are recordings of conversations with my wife where she

are recordings of conversations with my wife where she admitted that she had sex with another man while we were married admissible in military court?JA: Since laws vary from place to place, what state is this in?Customer: im still stationed in Mississippi and she is in californiaJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: my chain of command is fully awareJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I have friends that have evidence as well as other evidence

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