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We live in Nj. My husband and I are owners of the house we
We live in Nj. My husband and I are owners of the house we live in now. He has an 18-year-old who just graduated from HS. I want the 18-year-old out of the house (he does have grand-parents nearby who have no problem having him staying with them). I would like to know if it's required to provide shelter to an 18-year-old in NJ? And as 50% of the house owner, do I have the right to refuse have another adult living with me?Thank you so much for your time in advance.
I have recently left my husband after several years of
I have recently left my husband after several years of waiting for things to improve. My husband has left the marriage emotionally and is instead verbally abusive, insulting, manipulative, unfaithful, a pathological liar and has an addiction to porn that has destroyed our sex life. He has not been willing to put forth any effort to help things get better or to change any of his behaviors. I want a divorce. He will not but that is only because he doesn't want to lose anything or have to spend any money. I cannot prove any of the allegations above in a court of law. Is there a particular ground I could use in a "fault" divorce based on why I initiated this separation?
My daughter is in the midst of a very ugly divorce. There is
My daughter is in the midst of a very ugly divorce. There is one 3 year old son. Original hearing did not result in any resolution so judge set a trial date. Prior to that order was given to complete co-parenting class and mediation. Mediation is tomorrow.The primary issues are custody, child support .Basis for having filed for divorce, are as follows: 2 years of verbal, psychological ,emotional, & economic abuse.Limited interaction with childAdmitted InfidelityIRS fraud resulting in finances due her, being stolen and 2 years of other repercussions.Homosexual lifestyleHere's the 2 questions: I'm certain the divorce will be granted, however, with regards ***** ***** fraud issues and monies due, will/ can the judge bring resolution to these matters as well or will separate courts actions need to be filed?Lastly, given that the husband lives a homosexual life style, and the child is a boy, is it likely that the "traditional" state guidance for custody and time will still be automatically implemented?
I 't know why my responses are not showing up. I may take
For Doug ***I don't know why my responses are not showing up. I may take you up on the phone call but not this weekend when my husband is home. The biggest issue that my daughter and I are facing is the verbal abuse that we are subjected to on behalf of my husband. On top of that, he refuses to get a job. Just for the record, he has a doctorate in electrical engineering, has founded a start-up company, has a real estate license, has worked in corporate America as a middle-level manager in program management for 20 years and is a graphic designer, commercial photographer and videographer, but he won't get a job because he says that he is 62 years old and shouldn't have to work, so I am basically supporting the family. We are in the middle of a refinance, so I don't want to disrupt anything until that goes through before I file for divorce. Since I am pretty much of the breadwinner around here, I was told that I would have to pay my husband spousal support instead of the other way around and he is not disabled in any way. Is that true? I don't have a problem with child support, since I already pay most of my daughter's bills. The verbal abuse and severe negativity around here really has to stop, so is there any way that we can kick my husband out of the house? Also, if my husband does move out of the house and moves in with his mistress, will I still have to pay him spousal support?
I am in a dilemma. My daughter and I both know that my
I am in a dilemma. My daughter and I both know that my husband is having an affair with a fiend of ours. He refuses to work, so I am making most of the income around here. Even when he says that he is going out to meet with clients, we know that he is with his mistress. However, the problem has gotten worse in that he has become verbally abusive to both of us and he finds fault with just about everything that we do or say. Mind you that I pay most of the bills around here, including the mortgage. We would like to kick him out of the house but don't know how. Any advice?
I have a question regarding a situation with my ex-husband.
I have a question regarding a situation with my ex-husband. I could not possibly begin to explain the difficult individual that my ex husband is in this forum. I am in GA and he is in SC. Our son is currently visiting with him in SC and is to be returned tomorrow 6/18/16 at an agreed upon meeting spot 2.5hrs from me. (we are 4.5hrs from one another). This date has been solidified by documented correspondence between he and I (actually his current wife and myself - long story. I never agreed to correspond with her, but he chooses to let her answer my letters, i choose to continue to direct all my correspondence to him). He is such a verbally abusive, cursing, derogatory behavior yielding individual that we had to resort to certified letter correspondence. I will no longer text, phone or even email with him. So now to this current situation....our son called me tonight and asked me if i would DVR a game that comes on sunday, I advised him that he would be home on sunday? That his dad is to return him tomorrow (Saturday 6/18) @ 6:00pm. He said "well my dad told me I MAY be home in time to see the game on sunday. I think he is planning on returning me sunday" I asked him if i could speak with his dad and he said he wasn't home right now. I have now been trying to text our son and call him and his phone has been turned off. Which his father has been known to do with our sons phone. Back in April, when his father (his wife) advised me of the summer vacation dates they wanted our son, THEY are the ones who gave me the dates of June 10-18. Here is the other kicker...although the 19th is Fathers Day and his father would normally have him....it is also our son's birthday and it is my year to have him on his birthday. So i just figured ok, he is choosing not to have him on father's day since i have him for his birthday.What recourse do I have when I drive 5hrs roundtrip to get our son and he doesn't show up? (He actually did this last summer as well. I drove ALL the way to the meeting spot and he didn't show up. He claimed that we were supposed to meet the next day even though JUST like with this, I had it in writing). I know he will do it because he has in the past. I am SICK of this crap with him! I would also like to know, if he doesn't show up, do i have to send my son with him for the previously agreed upon visitation in July? I don't feel i should as I am never sure when he will decide to return him, or that I won't be driving 5hrs roundtrip again for him not to show up. I apologize for the length of this question but I am trying to get through the type of individual he is and I am very upset.
3rd try, help please. Workplace harassment on grandson w/IEP
3rd try, help please. Workplace harassment on grandson w/IEP throughout school. Turns 28 on 6/29/16. Shavon Smith from Civil Rights listened & referred us to you. My name is***** legal guardian & grandmother of Bryant Belback. Thank you.
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I have been married years now but the last ten have beenView more family law questions
I have been married for 25 years now but the last ten have been awful. He lies, cheats, is addicted to pornography and is emotionally and verbally abusive. I cannot prove the adultery but I know what my eyes have seen. I will have to use a different ground to sue for divorce. Here is my issue. We have owned and operated our own small business for 10 years now. It is the only income I receive. He tells me I get nothing if I leave so how do I protect myself financially so I can leave him and get away from him? Surely I feel entitled to my rights and to what is rightfully mine. By the way, I live in Mississippi.