My ex-husband requested for me to provide him with a W-2 form but he is a dependant partially or solely;unfortunatley, for 26 years and I have been divorced from him for 24 years.His parents are aged and very wealthy but they do not believe in helping him have an allowance and he has been their employee for much of their lives when he was younger and not since about 1989.I resent that they live so exclusively and I struggle to provide for him to just get by.His father has told him, according to Mike, my ex-husband,that if he can get health care coverage through this new website offered through Obamacare, that he would pay for it.Mike says that I hinder him since I claim him as a dependant on my tazes as it cost me at least $18,000/year to take care of him.I do not wish to do it but he is one of those jack of all trades, masters of none and should be getting SSDI by now with all the health problems that he has had for awhile. No matter whom we try and go through as a SSDI attorney,nothing seems to work.He has to have financial support somehow,so I fell stuck and forever unless his parents will finally see fit to set him up to have a trust fund as my late father did for us children.He has been an addict and it is best for someone to help him manage his funds as he is not very good.But he has a very abusive past with me and this is my money.I don't even want to imagine how irrational he can become if I had to manage his own inheritance or SSDI payments.Is there truth to his statement that I should supply him with some sort of form claiming him as an employee? I do have a home based business promoting a book of mine but I rather doubt that his few chores amount to $18,000/year, in the least. I will admit that he is a genius of sorts with mechanical knowledge and other generally called "manly skills".I don't mean this in a sexual manner;he is just gifted with his hands and expertise like his does not come cheap sometimes.He helps his poor friends with their chores too and some are in worse physical health than himself.Mike has always enjoyed self employment over being an employee and perhaps he can still get health care coverage inexpensively with Obamacare,but I do so much for him already that I often fantasize that I just drive off into the sunset in a RV one day until he drops dead.That really would not serve my needs and our daughter's and her family's needs, as well as my siblings,though.I only think it is fair that his father and mother take more responsibility but it does not seem to be a legal issue that they have to do so.And I seem to be either a fool or the only one whom cares about him and his failing health.He has tried Medicaid,so he says and is denied.What is your suggestion? Sincerely, XXXXX XXXXX
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