I am not sure what to do in regard to a civil matter. I have asked several questions a couple of weeks ago, all of which Lucy answered very satisfactorily. Long story short, I lent some money to a neighbour of mine who I thought I knew, my own fault, I knew she had money coming in when she came up short for rent a couple of month ago. Anyway, she did a 180 on me, I have nicely asked for it back, sent her notes, called her, to no avail. Instead I am accused of harassing her on a regular bases, which is a complete lie. On two occassions she has called out the lawenforcement late at night, claiming that I am driving after her in the parking lot purposefully HITTING HER with my car, and then I take off. Yes, there is mental issues. The Police saw no injuries, no report was made, however, the manager of the apartments here is not happy hearing of the police prescence, and, for unknown reasons, chooses to not fully believe me, or does not care. Perhaps it is easier to get rid of me, evict me, than it is dealing with a mentally unstable person, having to evict her. I know he does not need a reason to evict anybody, with proper notice, however, I am convinced that my neighbours mission is to get me evicted, her malicious plots have escalated, I am going to seek a restraining order tomorrow against her and her son, her partner in crime. Last weekend I was again accused of hitting her with my car; assault with a deadly weapon(!), as well as, burglarizing her apartment, stealing all her jewelery, and, after my sordid crime spree, leaving a crack (!) pipe behind. None of these allegations were substantiated or believed at all by the police. But, they told me to make sure I get that restraining order ASAP because, she absolutely is capable of "planting" something on me. No doubt. How awful, horrible thought, I will be the first in line filing papers at the court house in am. My question is; in addition to the incriminating actions against me, the maliciousness of false police report, assassination of my character, and, very tangible threats of physical violence by her son, getting evicted doesn't sound very bad at all...... But, after reading through the rental agreement, the section explaining the rights of all tenants to enjoy "Crime Free Housing", and, any single violation of this provision will terminate a rental lease, criminal conviction is not neccessary. Sounds logical to me. Now, the police officers told me that I should not try and convince my manager of my innocense any more, rather I need to bypass him and contact the Property Managers/owners directly. I understand their reasoning, I am definitely not my managers favorite, however I have been a renter in good standing for 4 years, and even though I know he will despise me if I go over his head, talk to upper management, but I might avoid eviction........ If I go and speak to him directly; I must tell him that I finally had to call the police today after my neighbours son continued to harrass ME, calling me, threatening me with violence for harrassing his mother, all done by texts and phone messages by the son. I finally had enough and called the police, and I am glad I did. I was so tired of it.
But, I stand an overwhelming risk of being thrown under the bus by my manager, yet I am really struggling with the thought of not approaching him first, then I throw him under the bus..... Is it naive of me to think that if I tell him the truth, he will see the light, and only the right people will be thrown under the bus???? Or, am I just being not very realistic about the situation?????
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