I'm not sure where to start, honestly. My husband is involved with a very ugly divorce and we're having serious issues with the mom. In addition to her making multiple unilateral decisions about the children, the most recent situation includes her not providing detailed, frequent, or honest information about one of the minor children recently being arrested for domestic violence. This child has not spoken to dad in 2 years (long story) but he was granted joint decision making as part of the parenting plan. We were recently told that her attorney is going to file an Ex Par Te to take his decision making rights away. We are in the process of filing a VERIFIED MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT FOR CITATION FOR CONTEMPT OF COURT for her multiple violations of the Parenting Plan, but not sure how detailed it should be, or whether it is going to matter once the Ex Par Te is filed - she has stopped responding to all requests for information regarding the immediate issue.
My husband sees the younger minor child on a regular basis and we're concerned about how the older child's behaviors are going to negatively affect the younger child. The older child has been on suicide watch twice in 2 months, was recently arrested for domestic violence against her ex-boyfriend, wants to change schools because of that incident, is on antidepressants, is not attending the hospital recommended therapy on a regular basis yet has been diagnosed with borderline multiple personality disorder, which we've also been told is a learned behavior, typically from the mother (who has also been identified as multiple personality, narcissistic).
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