I received an ex- part notice on Thursday night from my
I received an ex- part notice on Thursday night from my ex-husband. It stated he was calling a hearing on Monday, at 8:30 am, in Dept. 122. He said it was for a change in custody for physical and mental abuse.JA: Can you tell me what state this is in? Have any charges been officially filed?Customer: This is in CA. no charges have been filed. The police have actually been out three times because he kept taking the kids on my days and would not give them back. One of my twins was alone with him for 24 hours, after not seeing him for a couple of weeks, and called me afterwards saying dad told him all about me and he hates me now. (he does have some mental issues). I had just taken him to the doctor two days early and he told them we had a wonderful relationship. So obviously something happened to brainwash him.JA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: There is now a missing person case out for my son since he is a runaway. However, my ex knows where he is but won't say anything until its his custody day. Nothing has been reported to police. There are no bruises, etc. I am wondering if his notice is even legal because he doesn't say what courthouse or address, plus he does have an attorney. (I don't) shouldn't I be getting notice from his attorney with courthouse etc.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I think that's it. Oh, the doctors are thinking he might be bipolar due to his switch in demeanor after such a short time. He has been treated for other mental issues. I just need to know if the notice is legal and how do I ask for him to be taken in for evaluation.
My husband had a child with a girl when he was 15. The girl
My husband had a child with a girl when he was 15. The girl was in foster care and noved around a lot. They broke up and she took the baby when she was 8 months old and changed her number and wouldn't allow him to have hee number or address. She called on private on occasion and would tell him no when he asked to see her. The child is now 6 and calls another man dad. She came back when the child was 4 out of the blue demanding him sign away rights so her new husband could adopt the child since he has been there since the child was 8 months old. She said if he didnt sign she would come after him for 4 years back child support and would be harming her if he came into her life now. She came to our house with her husband, a piece of paper and a friend of hers who worked for a notory to stamp the paper. She is 6 now and her mother recently contacted us and is allowing us to see her but she is still going forth with the adoption but its been put on hold. She also took the child outour state and into Missouri. We live in kansas. The child was born in kansas. Is there any way we could sue her for parental alienation and parental substitution and get some type of custody going for us?
My ex husband is the custodial parent, there is no
Hello,My ex husband is the custodial parent, there is no communications clause in our divorce decree defining when I can speak with the children on the phone. He moved 5 hours away from here and therefore it has become much more important to be able to talk to the kids over the phone. He has not one time answered the phone when I call, & it would take 3 or 4 days for the kids to call me back, if they even did (kids are: 14 & 9). To try and help the situation, I requested that we set a time each week for the kids to call, which he agreed upon as Sunday nights. They have called every Sunday as agreed for the last month. The catch is that they make the kids call me while they are in the car, with my ex & his girlfriend every time. Absolutely no privacy. This is the only time I am able to talk to the kids. I have called 4 times in the last few weeks during the week & got no response. I asked to set up a time through the week and his girlfriend messaged me back, telling me the kids are too busy through the week to set up a time- but they could call anytime they had free all they had to do was ask. The one time my son called, we talked for five minutes and then she came and told him she needed her phone. I need some advice. I plan on trying to modify the order once we reach the one year mark in Feb. Until then, what can I do? I understand they are not technically in violation of the order, but this is not right. It is bad for the kids, I think there is definite Parental Alienation going one and I am worried. Any help will be much appreciated. Thank you!
I have a child support question. I am considered 100%
I have a child support question. I am considered 100% disabled so I get SSD but I also get disability insurance as well. The insurance augments my SSD to pay me 65% of my original salary. I used to make a LOT of money, so disability pays my kids the max amount. I am now down to 1 child, yet I still pay the same $1157/mo in child support. My disability insurance sees that as income, so it does come out of my income even though it is sent directly to my ex-wife. I filled out the state child support form to see what I should be paying and it is more like $600/mo. I lost all of my retirement in the divorce and I could definitely use that money to build up my retirement since I had to start over. My question is that since that the money is sent federally, can the state rules still apply... I live in MOJA: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: MOJA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: Just the divorceJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: not that I can think of
My son lives in New Mexico and shares custody of his
My son lives in New Mexico and shares custody of his daughter with the mother in Texas. They have never been married. He pays $500 in child support and is supposed to be able to see his daughter whenever his schedule allows. There is no set visitation schedule. Unfortunately the mother is not working with us to be able to see his daughter. She has 2 other children that are ADHD, their father is in prison and she has a restraining order against him. What are the chances of getting full custody or should we just go to court to get set visitation? What if she doesn't comply with a visitation schedule since she isn't working with us now on visitation.
The other issue is we have an order of out of state
The other issue is we have an order of out of state visitation. The child came summer but she's refusing to send him Christmas. When we tried to purchase the airfare for summer she made a national incident out of it. The court ordered we buy two round trip tickets and she come to Florida and get the child paying for her own ticket. She refused all suggested flights and airlines. We ended up purchasing her ticket because she just wouldn't agree on dates and airline. She wanted to fly to Seattle for a 33 hour layover. When we purchased the ticket she lied for days she paid the invoice we sent. She eventually paid $1096 but her ticket was over $1200. Now Christmas same thing. Now she's saying she's not sending him this Christmas because the order doesn't specifically say this Christmas. The judge verbally told her in court. She told the judge it was her birthday and not to allow Christmas. He told her no and ordered the visit but the start year apparently is not in the order. What can we do. How do we make her join the roundtrip ticket we purchase. The child's ticket can't be finalized without adding her confirmation to his ticket. His ticket needs to match my husbands ticket because they are flying first. She says we are not going to be picking her ticket.What is customary in this situation. I know civil people get together picks date and just purchase. She won't do that. Would the courts give further instructions or orders on this matter.