, good afternoon! I have question regarding my DV case. I was able to consult, Amber, one of your lawyers on xxx xx,xxxx. I'm using my free membership now, which will expire tomorrow. We both agreed and got an order mediator & will be calling her tomorrow. The ff. are my questions: 1. Her lawyer said we need to "divide our marital debt equitably". Is there any helpful statutory guide of how much should be assigned to me? My income is 1/3 less than her income. 2. Can we include in our proposal regarding child support and Alimony to the mediator. 3. We both have credit cards debt. Is my credit cards debt also included in this negotiation? What if she refused to include mine? Can I site any provisions in the marriage law that will prevent her from doing so? 4. We both agreed to have Jt. custody of the children and I agree to stay with her -physical address subject to my visitation. My question is, Does she has the sole decision of where the kids will go to school next sch. year, or by law my decision also counts, even thou, if she has the physical custody. By the way we lived in the same City. Because I need to include this in our mediation, because she told our oldest son to transfer to another sch. and he's now 7th grade. Next yr. will be his last yr. and I don't want him to be away from all his friends and teachers. Thank you very much and anticipating your kind answer.
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