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I recently entered into custody agreement with my ex wife
hi i recently entered into custody agreement with my ex wife regarding my young son i recenltly resigned from my job working with disabled students in a classroom setting my employer took issue with the way i was handling difficult behaviors such as students choking other students students defecating on the rug students taking off their clothes screaming kicking slapping etc. the employer thought that i was being too stern and somewhat intimidating i didn't agree but chose to resign anyway as it wasn't a very good job no allegations of abuse or criminal charges whatsoever the employer agreed to give me a neutral reference is this grounds for my ex wife to file for denial of my visitation if when she finds out i don't plan to tell her the details
I live in california and can not get my exboyfriend to leave
I live in california and can not get my exboyfriend to leave my house. I kicked him out and then let him back in for what was agreed to be a few days as he was on waiting list for rehab.JA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: no and can not afford one
Divorce decree shows I have full custody, ex is to have
Divorce decree shows I have full custody, ex is to have visitation 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend of the month. Says standard summer, but does not declare what that is (ex was not attempting to work on things during settlement, so summer visitation was never defined). I offered him 2 weeks in May (child is nine, has summer school) and his choice of 2 weeks in July for this year, in writing, attempting to be civil. His two weeks for July were to be done Sunday, however, he called me Tuesday and told me to "come get my lying child". ***** would not tell me what was wrong over the phone. When I got there he said child has been lying about being touched inappropriately, DHS was called by his mother-in-law, gag order had been placed so they couldn't call me, and they had to take her to be forensically questioned. He said they determined the child had been lying. He said her punishment was to go home for the rest of her time with him. So I brought her home. I contacted DHS, who said they do not place gag orders, contacted the women's center, who could not tell me if my child had been there or not, but did tell me to contact a deputy at the local sheriff's department. I contacted the deputy, who told me I need to come in to speak with him on Monday to get to the bottom of all this. The next day he texted and said "Have your lawyer draw up paperwork for me to sign over my rights and include that I DO NOT have to pay child support. I can't have the lies anymore." I contacted my lawyer, who is on vacation, and said she can handle things on Monday. She will be out of contact until then. Ex called later that night, asked if I had told child what he said, which I had not, and told me he wanted to ask her how it felt being lied to. I told him that would have been highly traumatic and that is not how you punish a child. He then told me he wanted her back on Thursday, and I said no because he had said that he wanted her back home for the rest of his time with her and I don't think its in her best interest to be with him right now if he feels that punishment such as that is appropriate. Then he said he wanted her back at least Friday because it says on the decree that it is his weekend. He told me if I didn't give her to him on Friday I'd be in contempt of court. He repeated texted me yesterday attempting to get me to take the child to him, claiming I had said yes and that he had a witness to that. I did not. I need to know if I'd be in contempt of court if I didn't take her to him tonight. I want to wait until I've spoken to the sheriff's deputy before I take the child back to her father for visitation, and I do not feel it is in the child's best interest to be around her father at this moment because of the punishment he wanted to coerce me into giving her. I am highly concerned that someone(s) are questioning my child with leading questions with the goal of getting her to say that someone on my side has been touching her inappropriately, with the ultimate goal of obtaining custody for him. And I can't get in touch with my lawyer because she is on vacation until Monday to make sure I wouldn't be in contempt of court for not taking the child to him for visitation this weekend, which would have been included in his two weeks in July, that the ex willfully gave up to punish his child yet states that I must give the child over because the decree itself declares that he gets the 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekends of the month.
I have a divorce case going on from the middle of 2014. My
I have a divorce case going on from the middle of 2014. My ex-wife acted in such a way that settlement was not possible, and the trial was postponed for 3 times. Now she is tired, and agree to settle on her conditions, and I will transfer to her all the money I currently have plus I pay her $3500 monthly spousal support until I retire. All we need to do now is to sign the agreement by the Judge, and close the case, which is expected on July 12.Two days ago my ex-wife received a notice from small court. She borrowed money from a friend of her (Tatiana), and a year later refused to pay back. Tatiana filed a case against my ex-wife, and I am a witness in this case because it was related to our common property, and my word is critical for the case.After receiving the notice from small court my ex-wife withdrawn the settlement agreement. I received a message from her lawyer mentioning that I am harassing my ex-wife by witnessing against her. Now they want me to sign a stipulation, preventing me from giving any information to Tatiana, and want me to take responsibility if she somehow win the case.This is her formulation: "I consider this continued insertion of yourself into matters that do not involve you as harrassment and will seek restraining orders and attorney fees against you if it continues and if the small claims action is not dismissed FORTHWITH."Here are my questions to you:- is it really can be considered as harassment?- if I go to the trial how this situation looks from the Judge point of view? My ex-wife made a fraud, and I am trying to prove it. I am honest in this situation, and I am trying to help my friend Tatiana to get her money back. How dangerous it for me, especially, if I represent myself?What is your suggestion?
Law Educator My ex has now accused my of intercepting
Law EducatorMy ex has now accused my of intercepting private communication of he and his accountant. ( previously he accused me of buying an iPad using his credit card) what do I do? I have not done either of these things and I have no idea why he is claiming this. I have the contempt hearing on the 11 of July.
If I win my civil case (and get the alimony lowered) against
If I win my civil case (and get the alimony lowered) against my ex-wife and her pastor who made the claims that she had PTSD and it is proven in the civil case thru a subpeoned expert wittness like a state liscensed forensic phychatrist can I then press criminal charges? This pastor using his position and lies and intimidation basically took away my free will because I was afraid to go to court and loss everything. His false assessment of PTSD and the massive settlement he demanded caused me extreme hardship and I would think that would be grounds for criminal charges
I am filing a request aside of default judgement of my
I am filing a request for set aside of default judgement of my divorce case. Can I file a request for modification in cus today and visit ion simultaneously. Both are justified and each has a lot of evidence. I want to get custody fixed right away.. I'm in california
I filed a protective order against my then bf and now i want
I filed a protective order against my then bf and now i want us to get back together. Ive been going to counseling, my kids are going, hes been going to couseling and abuse classes. I dont want our whole lives to be ruined over this one thing. We have been together 3 years. How hard is it to get the protective order dropped? And will that cause someone to try to take my kidsJA: Because laws vary from state to state, could you tell me what state is this in?Customer: OklahomaJA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: No. I was talking to my therapist. We havent had any contact since december. She said i need to try to do it legally bc he did get a 2 yr deferred misdeamnor and 52 week of class.JA: Anything else you think the lawyer should know?Customer: No. Hes done everything that hes suppose to. I have too. But we still care about each other and it was one time. I just dont want to lose my kids.JA: OK. Got it. I'm sending you to a secure page on JustAnswer so you can place the $5 fully-refundable deposit now. While you're filling out that form, I'll tell the Family Lawyer about your situation and then connect you two.
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I need some advice on what I can do legally to deal with my 17 year old. She is being rebellious and will not come home. She is staying with her girlfriend who is 18 years old. She's been gone for over a month. I picked her up from school on her last day and she came home with me. Now she is gone again. I can't get a hold of her in any way. When I call or text them, it goes straight to voicemail. I want my daughter home. Is there anything I can do??
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