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I need to know if the county I file visitation with my child

HelloJA: Hi. How can we be of help?Customer: I need to know if the county I file visitation with my child is the correct county since his mother has moved 4 times already. My son and his girlfriend had a child in Reno, NV together March 8, 2014. They aren't together. When the baby was less than a yr old she moved to Roseville with her mother. She lived there longer than 6 months. She now has a military boyfriend and he was stationed in Utah (1100 r/t miles away) at the airfares base. She just moved in November. She just told my son, she didn't involve him in what would happen regarding visiting Isaac.He pays child support. She allowed him to visit their son, but only when she felt like it. No visitation is in writing. He needs that now, for sure. I go with him on all the visits since she moved from Reno because his car isn't the best.She said we could come to Isaacs birthday party which would be in Roseville March 8th. We took time off work, then last night after asking for more money, she said we weren't invited and that she would be busy the whole time. This happened last year too.All he's asking for is visitation and for her to stop blocking it and to stop texting for more money. Now she wants money for child care. She said she wants to look for a job. He would like legal custody as well so he can have access to his medical and health, child care, education information. Not physical custody.Thanks.Hiring an attorney that would help with the necessary forms in the correct county would be helpful. He's not able to afford full service. Maybe unbundled help?JA: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: I'm the grandma Isaac was born in Reno, NV. Moved to Mantica. Moved to Roseville, now moved to Layton, UTJA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: only child supportJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I think I cut and pasted what's happening

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My son and his girlfriend live together in state,can my son

my son and his girlfriend live together in Washington state,can my son take the child to oregon until he gets an attorney or can he be arrested for kidnappingJA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: noJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: no

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My child is 22 and I have a child support agreement that is

My child is 22 and I have a child support agreement that is significantly lower that her father actual income. about 5%. Is it too late to file a support modification?? I didn't know about his significant increase in income because he doesn't contact the child and he has been secretive.JA: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: n.y.JA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: not yetJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I believe in the original agreement, the child support was low because he is self employed and he hid his assets and now base on his website you could tell.

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Is is true that you cannot make over $600 per month in

Is is true that you cannot make over $600 per month in Charlotte NC to receive Medicaid. My daughter has cancer and has been told that she makes too much to get Medicaid help. She needs an operation immediately and the dr won't do it because she says medicaid has turned her down. She wonders if she should just quit her job to get coverage.

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I've asked a lot of questions lately but my situation scares

Hi.I've asked a lot of questions lately but my situation scares me quite a bit and changes daily.The issue is my Ex- is blackmailing me to drop the child support arrears he owes b/c he's going to lose his apartment + have to move back to Florida or be homeless in NYC. He's been unemployed since November from a sales job with a decent salary and has decided since then that he can make $65k as a street artist (clearly that's not working out).The context... We've never been married. I supported him financially for three years b/c he refused to work or was fired from every job. He has borderline personality disorder and the emotional abuse I've been through it mind numbing and I've kept track of a lot of it in my journal and a few therapists are well aware of everything. He's literally made me feel insane at times gas lighting me adn blaming me for his issues and eventually through breaking me down I started to believe everytime something in his life went badly it was my fault.He's threatened suicide b/c I wouldn't let him move back into the apartment without a job. He ended up institutionalized for two weeks b/c of it and diagnosed at that time with Borderline.He admitted to a sex addiction after I found him sexting with multiple women and found THOUSANDS + THOUSANDS of images of porn. (he now denies the sex addiction and says I told him he was a sex addict). Some of his ismage were on teenage sites with very young looking girls (I have proof of some of this on my phone b/c he connected his phone to our apple tv and forgot so I could see what he was downloading).The threat he's making is that when I found out he was cheating again after I let him back into my home I slapped him (two years ago). He claims it happened twice but I do not remember the alleged second time. I am mortified I reached that point and ran out to call my therapist b/c I was so upset but the manipulation, humiliation, financial trapping and lying had destroyed me. I was rock bottom and I snapped.The other thing he's threatening is a recording of me freaking out and yelling I hated him two months after we had Ruby. He refused to support her (he finally got a job at that point), threatened DNA tests, kept saying she wasn't his. (I don't care he suggested I cheated b/c I have never done that - it was the fact he suggested he didn't want her when she's such a perfect little girl). I also had HORRIBLE post partum as I'm bipolar and my emotions, as I'm sure most women experience we're way off.I'm terrified the judge would take my little girl away b/c of those two things b/c I am bipolar (+ 5.5 years sober from booze). I have never missed a day of medicine, I do not have any swings, I see my doctor regularly and have numerous therapists, sponsors, friends, colleagues that would testify on my behalf that I am a great mother, a stable human being and that I take my mental health seriously.I am willing to drop the arrears but I do not trust him to not pursue these accusations. Do I have to worry? Should I negotiate with him out of court and draw up a document with a lawyer to protect me from his accusations or is it normal for these hearings to get ugly and what he "has on me" is kind of normal? Oh and he was kicked out of a anger managment group therapy b/c he was so argumentative with the therapist and some of the women said he scared them and wouldn't leave the building when he did.Sorry this is so long but the context of our "issues" are important and I am legitimately scared the "slap" would really create question around me being a stable mother.Thank you

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I have a petition for modification in court since last June

I have a petition for modification in court since last June in Brooklyn Family Court... it also has violations due to unpaid Medical bills... for my ex... last month I found out he committed insurance fraud on my daughter's dental insurance... my ex is NYPD and I immediately took this to internal affairs and an investigation is being pursued... but do I have to add another motion to this because of this... it is unpaid dental bills... with him cashing his insurance checks and not paying the bill... also I believe he will he will be in contempt of court because the judge ordered him to hand over financial information in Nov, 2016 and he had 30 days to do so... I did he still has not... his lawyer had the court adjourned because financial information wasn't exchanged... because of this adjournment I wasn't able to keep the nanny... in January, my 4 yr old was sexually touched by a 6 yr old at daycare when she would have been at a nanny... is there any way both him and his lawyer get thrown in jail for contempt of court as my child became a victim due to their ridiculous tactics? I'm extremely angry... I feel like the entire court system let down my child and my child became a victim....JA: Not for this question, but they might if you need additional services. You'll have to ask the Lawyer about that. Not for this question, but they might if you need additional services. You'll have to ask the Lawyer about that. Since laws vary from place to place, what state is this in?Customer: New York... kings county BrooklynJA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: Just the modification and violation of the medical billsJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I think that is it

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Y wife and I have been split up little over a year. But we

y wife and I have been split up little over a year. But we have been together since then, if you know what I mean... then last week someone sends me a picture of my wife and another maan lying down in bed and kissing.... Can I try to go ahead with adulyert filings?JA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: no legal separation and no domestic violenceJA: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: louisianaJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I just wanted to know if I have a leg to stand on

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When we signed the home equity loan for the 27k. There is a

When we signed the home equity loan for the 27k. There is a deed of trust document that we signed. We both are on there. Is that different than been on the deed itself?

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I would like to know how to get Texas attorney general

I would like to know how to get Texas attorney general office to zero out the child support arrears being my son has lived with me his entire life and he turned 18 on September 29, 2016. A judge awarded the father full custody when my son and I lived in Germany and the father only wanted this so he never had to pay child support. I want it removed from my credit report.JA: Because family law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: Houston, Texas and the child and I live in OregonJA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: I tried but cannot afford a $25,000 retainer fee.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I had the Oregon child support office send documents asking to give me credit for the time my son lived with me on December 30, 2016-Texas has not responded.

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