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Does a love affair with sodomy between 2 women that are

does a love affair with sodomy between 2 women that are married to other people apply as adultery under article 134

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My friend was in the Air Force and was Dishonorably discharged

My friend was in the Air Force and was Dishonorably discharged in the mid fiftiesfor being Gay. Can this Discharged be changed?

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Hello,Next year in April would have been my 20 year mark

Hello,Next year in April would have been my 20 year mark in the Air Force. I am gay and me and my foreign boyfriend have been living separately for four years (out of 9) due to immigration laws so the plan was to get out next April. Last spring I took the tests to get promoted to the next higher grade. I passed the test but the condition to put up the new grade was to reenlist for another 2 years, which is what I did. Now I realise it that it was a mistake. My personal life is suffering greatly from my career and after four years of living apart I should have just retired next year to finally move with my boyfriend in Belgium. Is there any way I can get out of the two year reenlistment (and new grade) at my 20 year mark as was initially planned and get my retirement benefits?

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I was kicked out of the Army shortly after entering my AIT.

I was kicked out of the Army shortly after entering my AIT. Someone heard me talking to my ex-lover and reported me for being gay. I have an uncharacterized discharge with a separation code of JRB and and Reenlistment code of RE 4. Can this be upgraded now that the law regarding openly gay personnel to serve? I was more or less "bullied" into leaving stating that if I fought it, I could be court martialed for fraud because I didn't state the truth on my enlistment papers. Not looking for money or benefits, just maybe some good deals with housing or interest rates for veterans as I would have stayed in otherwise.

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In the Navy Sept.86 to Feb89. Recieved Other than Honorable,

In the Navy Sept.86 to Feb89. Recieved Other than Honorable, Drug Abuse Marijuana. I intentionally got caught by a shipmate smoking pot. I was under investigation by the NIS for being gay. I was in the closet and didn't want being a homosexual on the discharge. This was known by the shipmates and my chief petty officer. Is my discharge upgradable to reflect the truth?

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I plead guilty to fraternization and extramarital affair (me

I plead guilty to fraternization and extramarital affair (me 04 her E4) in 2011... served 90 days minus good time at MiraMar NAS. I came home to my reserve unit, and was told not to come to my MUTA's/BA's. Then had a separation board in which I was separated with a general DC under HC. I am a NG and Reserve 04 with 19 yrs good service. Officers on the separation board worked as NG for the CMDR of the unit trying to separate me. I understand it has already gone thru a "standard appeal". Is there any way to still get my retirement with 19years??

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I need some major help. Im not comfortable typing the whole

I need some major help. I'm not comfortable typing the whole story on here... Is there a way to privately email a military lawyer?? ThanksSPC Minter

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My girlfriend was issued a Military Protective Order by her

My girlfriend was issued a Military Protective Order by her Commanding Officer naming me the protected person. What can I do about this? I don't fear her and we are not in an abusive relationship.

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My partner was honorably discharged from the military. He

My partner was honorably discharged from the military. He served during Desert Storm. He is currently at a 0% Service Connected Disability, and he is on social security disability from the government. He goes to the VA for all of his medical care (diabetes, depression, anxiety, etc.) and is covered at the VA. He has a very low co-payment for prescriptions and medical visits. I am wondering if there is anything I am eligible for if he were to pass away. We are a gay male couple, and we have been together for 10 years. I have heard of VA widow benefits, but I'm not sure if if that is only for veterans with Service Connected Disability or for all vets that use the VA. If there are some sort of benefits upon his death, what would they be, and would I receive anything as his partner? As an FYI, we obviously cannot be married because we are in Florida; however, we do have full protection through Power of Attorney's and Living Wills as well as joint bank accounts.

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