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I have a few questions and concerns. I went through a MEB

Hi, I have a few questions and concerns. I went through a MEB board process & it has been finalized & completed. I have my desperation orders. My ETS date is Sept 26, 2016. However, on my final out date, my chain of command flagged me & pulled my terminal leave to pend me for UCMJ for an incident that took place on July 28th, 2016. I'm trying to seek legal help to see what's going to be taking place. I have went to JAGS & they said they don't have any paperwork on me. I have already cleared with the PMO , but there is a pending charge... PMO said it is not being court martial. I'm just sitting around, haven't heard anything on what they're going to do with me. What can possibly happen? How will this effect my separation & my disability?

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Me and my husband are currently separated since late October

Me and my husband are currently separated since late October of 2014. I've gone through abused with him so have to call the police and since that day it happened we never live in a same house again. We have a 5 year old son together. We try to be civil since the court order was lifted and no contact order was over. I thought were fine, accepted everything that has happen and start moving on.. He was dating already and since I thought were fine after a year I decided to date as well.. He was dating his soldier then and i never said anything because I just want him to be happy and were totally over anyways. We both didn't file divorce yet then just for the reason in my part as lack of financial money to go through it.. Then now, me and boyfriend are getting serious. We've moved in together. He knows everything about us just as much as I know about his relationship. We told each other that it's about time to just really finally file our divorce. Now the case is, after he have file divorce, most stuff that was written in there was very unfair and asking to just for him to support $300 after divorce is over from sending $1000 monthly. My boyfriend is in the service as well. Since I tried to contest with it, he's just now sending 270 and told me if talk to his commander about it he'll get my boyfriend in trouble.. I'm sorry for the very long story. I just want to put as much information I could because I know my situation is very complicated. I just wanna know what I should do since he's blackmailing us.. Thank you in advance. Hope I can hear from You soon and Hope someone could help me out.

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Is the time limit to appeal a discharge upgrade decision

Is the time limit to appeal a discharge upgrade decision from the ADRB to the ABCMR 3 years? Or is it from the date of the discharge?

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My dad received an undesirable discharge from the Air Corps

my dad received an undesirable discharge from the Air Corps which at the time was put into question but never resolved. he would like to have the undesirable discharge reviewed and reversed but we have no idea of where to begin, who to contact, etc. to begin the process.any help would be appreciated.

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Question, I am a reservist enlisted, I met a guy on an

Question, I am a reservist enlisted, I met a guy on an online dating site, he just moved here 3 weeks ago. He's an active duty officer. Different career field... Can we see each other?JA: Because laws vary from state to state, could you tell me what state is this in?Customer: FloridaJA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: NoJA: Anything else you think the lawyer should know?Customer: Nope

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I got a termination notice on July 21st imam payed up month

I got a termination notice on July 21st imam payed up for this month do i have 30 days from the 1st or the date i revived the paper, imam a disabled veteran and was wondering what i have to do?

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I was given an Honorable discharge DD214 after the board

Hi Pearl, I was given an Honorable discharge DD214 after the board reviewed my case and upgraded it to Honorable. I had an aneurysm while in the service but had been given a general discharge at the time. My DD214 shows Net active service this period as 10 months 7 days, not enough for VA home loan benefits from what I understand. I was previously in the reserves and had served 6 months and 6 days active duty training and 9 months 26 days inactive. My separation is listed as under Secretarial Authority as the reason for separation. AR 635 200 PARA 5-3 separation code JFF. Hoping you could tell me if you think the VA would consider this to be eligible for a va home loan even though I did not serve the 2 years.JA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: not yetJA: Anything else you think the lawyer should know?Customer: I had an aneurysm at the time. I spoke to one of my state senators who wrote a letter n my behalf after I showed the medical records and sent to the review boardJA: OK. Got it. I'm sending you to a secure page on JustAnswer so you can place the $5 fully-refundable deposit now. While you're filling out that form, I'll tell the Military Lawyer about your situation and then connect you two.

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I have been told that the Command intends to separate.

I have been told that the Command intends to separate. However, I have not received any paperwork dictating so. I've been flagged for over a month (illegally), and currently I have been ACAP'ing and getting my medical appointments in order.JA: Because laws vary from state to state, could you tell me what state is this in?Customer: Fort *****, *****tuckyJA: Have you talked to a lawyer yet?Customer: I spoke briefly to a Lawyer, mainly inquires. I'm tracking that once I have been served the separation information, that I will have 50/60 days to rebuttal or having for either retaining etc.JA: Anything else you think the lawyer should know?Customer: Yes there is quite a few things the lawyer should know in reference to my case.JA: OK. Got it. I'm sending you to a secure page on JustAnswer so you can place the $5 fully-refundable deposit now. While you're filling out that form, I'll tell the Military Lawyer about your situation and then connect you two.Customer: How does this work?

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I have two friends in the army national guard who really

I have two friends in the army national guard who really like each other. He's a SGT and She's a PV2, and they are in different units. Is it fraternization if they start dating?

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