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If this is the same person who helped me a few days ago, I

If this is the same person who helped me a few days ago, I apologize for the repeat of a few bits of information.The charge was in California. He is meeting with an Arkansas recruiterMy son is meeting with an Army recruiter. He has paperwork to fill out and will be getting fingerprinted.When he was under 16 he pled guilty to one count California penal code 288.5(a) in a juvenile court. He was not ever handcuffed, arrested, fingerprinted and did not spend any time detained. He did receive one year probation. He did not have to register. His records were voluntarily sealed by the court. The petition against him was dismissed.He is aware he needs to disclose.Will this be considered an automatic DQ or *may* he be eligible to file a waiver?He is unsure how to answer several questions. Can you help?1. Have you ever been charged with any felony offense? (The only thing in paperwork I can find is that if he were tried as an adult it would have been a felony. He was not.)2. Have you ever been arrested by any police officer, sheriff, marshal or any type of law enforcement officer? (We did report to the police station a few days after I filed the report (this offense was in the family) and we were released.Thank you for your information.

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I have a protection order against me from the C.O. that says

I have a protection order against me from the C.O. that says I cannot return home or see my children. I have permanent duty station change in less than a month and that has become nearly impossible due to circumstances. I submitted a request for Rescission of the protection order but was told it will be denied. My next step Im thinking is requesting mast, there were no charges filed against me but she claimed to feel threatened and abused. What are my options and the likelihood of fixing it?JA: Since laws vary from place to place, what state is this in? And just to clarify, have charges been officially filed?Customer: California on a military base, no charges have been filed just a complaint and suspicionJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: Yes, my entire chain of command up to the commanding officer is aware of my situation.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I have no criminal background, never been alleged of anything even remotely similar and my wife has filed for divorce and served me with divorce paperwork.

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My son was charged with assault. He has gone before the DRB

My son was charged with assault. He has gone before the DRB and the case is being sent to the xo. I am just trying to find out what his rights are, and what, if anything can be done.JA: Because laws vary from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: All of this happened while at sea on board the USS BushJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: Only my son himself.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: He admits to the simple assault. I dont know what else might be pertinent.

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I just found out my husband was carrying on an affair with

I just found out my husband was carrying on an affair with one of his jr enlisted soldiers. He is of higher rank. He told me if I tell he'll stop paying all the bills in the house and file for custody of the kids. He was the main provider of our family. What can I do to protect my right? Should I keep hush. He also told me he wants me to sign divorce papers, which at this point I don't mind. Please help.JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: We are statesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No I'm scared of the reprimand behind it. Since he said he wants to leave me and the kids I thought about joining so me and the kids will be financially stable. I'm just confused. Just need advice.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: No we've been married for a couple years. He always had infidelity issues but this is the first time he's come to me and said he wants to leave for the other woman.

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My ex is a marine and we have a 4 month old daughter. I

hi. My ex is a marine and we have a 4 month old daughter. I don't mind joint custody now but if he were to get transferred out of state would he still have joint custody? He expects her to live with him half of the year.JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I don't think so

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My daughter and son in law have just separated. In 3 weeks

My daughter and son in law have just separated. In 3 weeks he is going to another base in MD. He has the 2 boys. Tonight he said that in order to get base housing he has to file for a legal separation and get custody of the kids. Is this true?JA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: NoJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: My daughter just got out of a rehab facility, she is starting counseling on Monday and celebrate recovery on Sunday. Her husband called her before her discharge and told her she couldn't come home. She wants to work things out and is trying to get all the help she can...

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Can military finance force a couple to sign and notarize a

Can military finance force a couple to sign and notarize a 50/ 50 guardianship before receiving dependant BAH?JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: The father is overseas. I am statesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: In worried if i sign it. His mother who has full POA now has those rights to our child while he its awayJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: His command said it had to be done or he wont receive any allowance for her

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I'm in the AF and would like to surrogate for my sister, is

I'm in the AF and would like to surrogate for my sister, is this a possibility while staying active duty?JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: Stateside currently stationed in NMJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No wanted to find out if it was a possibility won't be possible for 1.5 years to begin withJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: No maa

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My husband was assigned to Ft. Hamilton under compassionate

My husband was assigned to Ft. Hamilton under compassionate reassignment after I was diagnosed with cancer. We are currently living together but he is hardly home and We have a daughter which he hardly helps out with physically or economically. Having him here has been more of a burden than a help. Thank goodness for my mother who watches the baby. I have recently discovered he is meeting up with his ex and he even drives her home every now and again. I was wondering what would be the smartest way to go about a divorce. What am I entitled to and what are my rights?JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: NoJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: We've been married for 2 years (3 in march)

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