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Can my husband take my child if we are divorced?

My ex husband will be stationed in Japan by December. We are already divorced according to him but there is no final custody yet that I have received so we shared our son. I got 4 days and he got 3 days. He has been paying child support but he hired a lawyer so he can take my son with him and his new girlfriend in Japan. I am scared right now. I don't wanna lose my son. I have a full time job, go to college, never do drugs and just take care of my son. Should I worry? What are my rights? Can he just take off with my son to Japan? What can I do to keep my son with me here in California?

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I'm seeking information on how a command has to charge a

hi, i'm seeking information on how long a command has to charge a soldier with an article 86JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: stateside and I was late for my staff duty due to being sickJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: yes but it is my training center chief pushing it through our hhccommandJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: yes, this incidence occurred on 14 august 2016 and I was read my article 15 today and it is dated for today

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1997 I came up positive on an urinalysis I was questioned

1997 I came up positive on an urinalysis I was questioned and fingerprinted by CID. The test was thrown out because the chain of custody was broken. I recently was denied global entry because the FBI shows that I was arrested in violation of UCMJ of positive urinalysis how do I get this fixed. I retired from the Army 1998. I have no paper work showing that the test was thrown outJA: Has anything been officially filed?Customer: NoJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No I retired 1998. It happens in 1997.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: Lost wifi xonnwxtion

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A few days ago my nephew was arrested for desertion. He is

A few days ago my nephew was arrested for desertion. He is currently being held in Salt Lake County Jail. About 8 years ago he signed the papers to join the army, but never reported and never took an oath. I have been told that to resolve this he must go to Oklahoma for 1-3 weeks while waiting for a discharge as he has been somehow listed incorrectly as on being on active duty. Meanwhile he remains in jail with almost no contact with his wife, and to my knowledge no attorney has come to discuss his situation.I understand presently it is not military policy to prosecute those who change their minds between enlisting and reporting for basic training. Is that correct? If so, and my understanding of the facts is correct, is the procedure above the only way to resolve this?

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I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH A ENLISTED MAN IN THE ARMY STATION IN

I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH A ENLISTED MAN IN THE ARMY STATION IN FORT CARSON BUT DOING THE CRIME IN FLORIDA WHO DO I CONTACT

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I am the step mother of a military child. Her mother is

I am the step mother of a military child. Her mother is active duty military. My husband and his ex have been divorced since 2009. They had specific order for the care of their daughter after divorce. She was awarded physical custody and child support. The mother who is a Major 20 years constantly uses her military position to violate the order. Since 2012 their daughter has been living with us and she refuses any support. Prior to then she would have family and friends care for the child. The divorce states she is to give my husband first right of refusal. In 2012 We hired a lawyer because she left their daughter with a friend again. We got he back and kept her for 5 months. All the while mind you support comes out of his check. She came back after the 5 months and resumed her regular life leaving the child with us. Still no support. She eventually 6 months later told us she was being deployed for 18 months. We had a lawyer draft an agreement for temporary modification for support and custody of Harlie. The agreement included the money she owed for the 5 months as well as return money and money for the 18 months or till she returns. The repayment would end June 2014 and reduce to $1596 till she gets back. She came back May 2014 and made the last payment for the repayment but again never got her daughter back. At that time she lived like 30 minutes away. 5 months later she took a job in N Carolina. She has been there since Jan 2015. We just recently found out she sold her house Sept 205. She still has never came back to get her daughter. She only returns the money that comes out my husbands check. She refuses to pay any support or contribute even school clothes. It has now been 4 years and she states she is retiring ans wants to come get her daughter. Do we have to give her back to her or what can we do. Can we collect the money she owes also. We just don't have the money to keep hiring lawyers everytime she says something or do something. Shouldn't the military hold her accoutable for taking care or her child. We do we have to pay to make he pay.

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I am an E5 in the Army with Joint Custody of my kids

I am an E5 in the Army with Joint Custody of my kids stationed in Okinawa Japan. I currently reside off post and I am being ordered to move in military barracks. My kids are Japanese and live in Japan. I am being told the move will be at my own expense and I am responsible for finding and paying for my own storage. Is this legal?

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My wife and I are pending a divorce> I am an E-8 stationed

Hello my wife and I are pending a divorce> I am an E-8 stationed in Korea currently and we have 2 children 1 mine 1 a step son. I am trying to establish what financial resources I must properly provide her. She currently resides in an off post House we rent paid for by the BAH.

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Wife who is in the Air Force....came to Michigan to visit

Wife who is in the Air Force....came to Michigan to visit daughter....as her husband she didn't want me going back to Nevada where she is stationed...so I let her visit with our daughter while she was in Michigan. Turns out she took our daughter and her mom and drove back to Nevada. We are legally married and I have taken care of our daughter since birth while she was in boot camp ,tech school, and now her current position .She also will not tell me where they live. I want my daughter back and don't know what to do. Can you help me?

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