My aunt Dottie with Alzheimer's disease is being cared for in a decent nursing home in Cleveland, TN. Her grand-niece, Megan, has power of atty, but is not furnishing her with toiletries and TV cable (and other things not provided by the home.) Megan is apparently using Dottie's ample social security check and Delta Airline pension to live on, while allowing Dottie to do without. Dottie has a long-care policy, and the home told Dottie's sister, Judy, that she'd have to leave when it ran out. Judy just called me in distress with the news that Dottie is not being taken care of properly. Judy is not interested in her estate (or what's left), nor am I....we just want to see this poor woman taken care of after she worked a lifetime in an excellent job with the airlines! Megan has a track record with her grandmother already, who also died with Alzhiemers. (also Judy's sister.) She followed the same pattern, requiring her grandmother to be moved from one facility to another with the money ran out. The money should not have run out with either of these ladies. They both worked hard and each had long-term care. Judy wants to make sure that if something improper is going on with Dottie’s pension money or social security money, that it STOPS. Can someone advise us on what course to take. Megan has shut Judy out from any meaningful discussion on the subject. (I am not close to Dottie or Megan, but am inquiring on Judy’s behalf.) Amy XXXXXXX
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