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Child support and retirement pay, Stateside, Yes they said

Child support and retirement payJA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: Yes they said until there Is court order nothing they can enforce .. navyJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: No

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Maureen, I was married 20 years and he was in the Air Force

Maureen, Hi. I was married 20 years and he was in the Air Force for 14 of those years. He just retired last Sunday as a Navy Commander with 22 years.JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: we are both in Tx. it was not an issue in the divorce because he got oout of the AF after 14 years and then went back into the Navy Reserves I guess around 2003 or so. I have everythiing in terms of paperwork finished and I am a 100% Disabled Vet (Vietnam Era Nurse) for PTSD/MST and Individual Unemployability. So when I went to get the divorce i found amazing and flagrant fraud and concealment. You have never heardof this but maybe you have. I was forcibly exiled for a period of 2 years and could not come within 75 miles of San Antonio. This judge and my exhusband gave me 30 days to completely dismantle, fracture, and lose my very life. No one even can comprehend this (Earl Warren said it best) because it is so outrageously tortuous that I completely broke down. He is a triple board certified Harvard fellowship expert witness Psychiatrist. My divorce was 43 pages and the criminal filings paperwork was I think 568 pages. He was afraid that I would expose his secret life but I never said a word, my children were 15 and 16 and I could never humiliate them like that. So never one word out of my mouth in this public forum and sure enough, the minute he gets on the stand he whines that I curse at him with accusations and epitaphs. Epitaphs? My, my. I suffered police brutality, was beaten to a pulp by my daughters drug addict unemployed boyfriend and I went to the Dr the next day, he did a complete exam, called the police and they came and took a report and took pictures. 15 pages from my doctor about what happened that night are gone. Out of almost 600 pages of total abuse of process, power and influence, and I just saw this when I got a copy of it last week. He is bad. He made around 30K a month, his child support was 1200, what is that, like 3.9%? He just did not pay it and then had me EXILED, DEPORTED, BANISHED, SHAMED, BROKEN HUMILIATED, LOST, AND JUST BROKEN AND CONFUSED. But most of all I feared jail. Who cared about Child Support? So the very day after I was banished, sobbing like a baby in a Motel 6 in Austin with a 24 foot Penske truck with everythinhg I could get in there, my car hooked to the back and I couldn't even rent an apt because I was now unemployed...I owned my own Portrait Studio and into the 2nd year of opening, it was over. I was elated. But then a day after the Attorney General notified him he was being sued for around 10 K at the time and so he would get MULTIPLE UPON MULTIPLE restraining ordders, protective orders, all ex parte, all with such unrelenting malice and determination to gaslight me to the point of actual exile. I am a textbook case and I just read about the characteristics and I am definatley and was for 20 solicd years by this piillar of the Community, healer of the mind, expert witness in tons of cases and knows all the powerful attorneys. That's just that. But I want to know if I can get my share of that 20 years? I worked 3 jobs as a nurse so he could go to med school. He's so gay that he got a "pretend" girlfriend, a lesbian Prozac Rep and he'd leave all sorts of clues around as if I didn't know what he was doing.JA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: i don't care about that now but i have no hope that i can get this although you go straight to the DFAS and garnish that stuff. So when we divorced, he was a Major with 14 years in so that's the portion I would get my percentage of. I got a copy of The Silent Partner and have learned a lot. Not one lawyer in this town so far has even been civil to me. They talk to me like I"m just an idiot. What do you mean, chain of command, he's retired now. He is such an EMOTIONALLY VIOLENT angry frustrated closeted macho man that I'm just scared to death of him. He has beaten me and choked me until I thoughjt I would pass out and every one of those times it would be over something about his sexual who knows what and who cares. I could care less.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I appreciate you listenig to all of this but all I want to know is how do i get this court order filled out? And what about this fraud with My assault (I was beaten in the face with his fists and bruised for 3 weeks . How those lawyers and that judge could look at what that punk did to me and ignore it and "punish" me by making me "vacate Bexar County" They hid that, and it happened when he was at a Psychiatry and the Law Conference in Kansas City. The kid stole my credit card, got the bill that day, 1500. and a lot of them were these crack house motels oh my God I was so broken for my daughter, I thought he was pimping her out or something, Those places see, I'm sobbing right now like a baby. That's what this f**king PTSD does and now that I had to look at this fraudulent divorce stuff I'm right back there. I cannot work as a nurse because of "family violence" related nonsnese, omg, the charges tjat came up with my fingerprints made it impossible at age 63 to wait around 2 years for the board of nurses to decide if i could be a newborn/labor and delivery nurse and the cost would be about 20 thousand dollars. i can't saee even to type i'm crying too hard.

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My girlfriend is divorced. She has 2 adult children and an

My girlfriend is divorced. She has 2 adult children and an 8yr. old granddaughter, to whom she is basically a mother.Her EX is retired military, and supposedly she can't touch his money because he took a disability retirement, and supposedly that protects his money from even divorce distribution. She has never received a dime in child support or her half of his "household" income, which she was told would include income from his new wife. Maybe irrelevant, but she is only allowed in the country because she is married to him, and she owns a lingerie business. My girlfriend is unable to work more than part time (less) because of injuries and the small paycheck she gets is almost completely consumed by the garnishments she has had, due to her EX's debts (gambling, school, etc). He has forged her name on legal documents, taxes and checks and again, supposedly because he is retired military with full disability, she can't touch him. She can't afford to hire an attorney, and is only able to buy gas and food because I support her and her granddaughter with what little I can.

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My soon to be ex-husband is being put on TDRL - temporary

My soon to be ex-husband is being put on TDRL - temporary disabled retirement list- he will be receiving a Navy retirement pay for 2 months before it goes to the VA payment. I am wanting to know if Title 42 U.S. Code, section 659 applies to my situation .JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: both state sideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: no, the divorce has been ongoing for 1.6 years. My lawyer is an idiot. I found this statute tonightJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: just wanting verification if this law applies to my situation or not

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Divorced since Feb 12 08 and I was retired from military

Divorced since Feb 12 08 and I was retired from military service in Jun 04. She still gets my Mil Retirement pay twice monthly payments. She has remarried, there no kids involved. Is there a way I can quit paying her. I plan to completely retire from my 2nd career (which I use to do the payments).JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: stateside, PA.JA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No for I have been retired since Jun 04.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I'm single, and I'll be living on my retirement pay.JA: When we are ready I'll take you to the appropriate web page.Customer: Monies and property was distributed and our house was sold at the time of divorce.

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My ex is a marine and we have a 4 month old daughter. I

hi. My ex is a marine and we have a 4 month old daughter. I don't mind joint custody now but if he were to get transferred out of state would he still have joint custody? He expects her to live with him half of the year.JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: No.JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: I don't think so

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My husband was assigned to Ft. Hamilton under compassionate

My husband was assigned to Ft. Hamilton under compassionate reassignment after I was diagnosed with cancer. We are currently living together but he is hardly home and We have a daughter which he hardly helps out with physically or economically. Having him here has been more of a burden than a help. Thank goodness for my mother who watches the baby. I have recently discovered he is meeting up with his ex and he even drives her home every now and again. I was wondering what would be the smartest way to go about a divorce. What am I entitled to and what are my rights?JA: Are you overseas or stateside?Customer: StatesideJA: Have you talked to anyone in the chain of command about this?Customer: NoJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: We've been married for 2 years (3 in march)

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While I was on active duty. I was stationed in Japan. My

While I was on active duty . I was stationed in Japan. My wife and I did not want nothing to do with each other . She said she spoke to Jag and she said if I signed the paper I would be able to move into barrix. so without seaking legal counsel I met her at jags office and signed seperation agreement . I moved into the barrix and a week later I received news I wasn't authorized to live there . So I lived with wife and guess room . That was 2014 and neither one of us followed the seperation agreement . It's now 2106 and she wants to live by the seperation agreement now after I am out of military and always threateneds me with her jag lawyer . She still lives in Japan so she is uses there services .the seperation agreement was never filed through any court because it was on a base . Also it was a seperation agreement using Guam laws. At the time I was a resident of Texas when I signed .so I'm asking is there anything I can do to fight this ?

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I was married to an active duty Air Force member for 16

I was married to an active duty Air Force member for 16 years, and he retired after 20 years at the rank of Staff Sergeant in 1993. I am eligible to receive 50% of his retirement pay but am not sure what that would calculate out to be. Could you help me find out what the monthly amount I would be entitled to?

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