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Tina, I have an unfortunate situation going on right. I had

Hi Tina, I have an unfortunate situation going on right. I had been in a very emotionally abusive relationship for about 8 years. I ended up getting pregnant 10 months ago and I lost the baby bc of how abuaive he was. We ended our relationship then and just resumed contact a few weeks ago for the first time in time 10 months. Tuesday night, he showed up at my door and everything was civil and unfortunately we ended up having sex. We didn't talk again until Friday when I showed up at his house. He was angry and belligerent and told me if I didn't leave he would call the cops. So I left. On my way home, he texted me and apologized for being rude to me. Yesterday , Saturday, via text he didn't like what I was saying to him ans threatened that if I ever contacted him again he would get a restraining order. He's threatened this many times over the past 8 years just to scare me but I never know when he's actually serious. Should I worry? You can't just get a restraining order against someone for no reason right?

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Maverick

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Could I go back and sue my divorce attorney for not properly

Could I go back and sue my divorce attorney for not properly doing his job. My ex illegally removed my children from my home and my attorney eould not file emergency orders. My attorney also did not file a 75 n form and got my case thrown out of court.JA: Because real estate law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: OhioJA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: We are officially divorce and parental alienation resulted. My ex did not provide me with visitation for one yearJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: We divorced in Aug 2012 and us there a certain period of time in which I have to do this?

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Alex J. Esq.

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I am in a bad situation. I've been married for 21 years and

Hello, I am in a bad situation. I've been married for 21 years and it's a very abusive relationship. I've tried several times to leave but he makes sure I am broke and can't afford to move out! I'm done and can't take it any longer. I have never been allowed to and I am now 48 years old with virtually now skills to even find employment. He has a good job and purchased a home in 2010. Of course my name is ***** ***** the house. He recently purchased a Harley Davidson for 15,000.00 of course in his name only. The house is currently worth 650,000. And he purchased it for 230,000. It sits on 2 acres of land. My question, if I file for divorce living here with him will be a nightmare to say the least. I have animals here because I got involved with animal rescue and they have no place to go if I leave. How can I ask the judge for move out money or ask the judge to make him leave since he can afford it?

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FamilyAnswer

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My son is 15, his father and I have joint custody but the

My son is 15, his father and I have joint custody but the father has physical custody. He wants to come live with me and start high school where I live. His dad is verbally abusive and very controlling and physical at times. Can custody be easily changed? Will the judge listen to my son about what he wants to do? We live in Indiana. My son is very unhappy living there. I have always been involved. I pay support. I get him for all my visitation time. I help out with extra things such as sports, school, clothes etc. Please advise.....

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FamilyAnswer

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I've been separated from my husband for 10 months. My child

I've been separated from my husband for 10 months. My child and I moved out of our home 10 months ago. We have a temporary custody order as a result of a restraining order. I have custody and he has visitation. He said that his lawyer said that he can take to court for abandonment and get full custody even though I'm a good mom. My attorney never told me this and im scared. It's almost been a year and I've never put my son in harms way.

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mmdesq

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Going thru a divorce.mentally,emotionally abusive

going thru a divorce.mentally,emotionally abusive relationship by the wife.not separated legally wife is dating. been together 8 years. purchased home together while dating,home is in wife's name. helped pay equally for down payment,materials to improve the home and mortgage.married 4 years ago.what equity am i entitled to

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FamilyAnswer

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I am currently dealing with a custody nightmare w my newborn

I am currently dealing with a custody nightmare w my newborn son after separating from an abusive relationship.When i moved out of the apartment we shared, I took my son. His father then filed for a temporary restraining order alleging abuse and mental illness. He was able to take temporary possession of my son via the granting of this ex parte order. These allegations were investigated, declared unfounded, and the permanent restraining order was denied by the judge. Despite this, he would not agree to let me see my son or have any time with him.He filed for a second restraining order the next day alleging that I was stalking him and sending people to his apartment to harm him. It was also denied. They requested a hearing anyway, it was dismissed.He testified on record during the second hearing that he has purchased a firearm to "protect himself." When the second order was denied, he made threats outside of the courtroom to "take things into his own hands."He filed for sole custody that same day. I am now waiting for the hearing which isn't for several weeks. His family is still refusing me any access to my son, and they are discussing my mental health and other details of this case on social media (publicly) and to third parties.Since they would not cooperate, the custody judge who will be hearing the case did order them to report for court-supervised visitation in the meantime. They have not responded to the requests to schedule in a week.He has gone to great lengths to make it look like I am abusive towards him and mentally unstable, twisting stories or outright lying to cover up the reasons why I had to leave, and to try to make it seem justified that he's kept my own baby from me now for several weeks, even after his legal action has failed. Will the pattern of his behavior before and during my separation from him be relevant to the judges decision? Is there anything else I can do to see my child?

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FamilyAnswer

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A family business opened 1967. My father owned 50%, my

A family business opened 1967. My father owned 50%, my mother 1%, my ex husband 49%. When my parents died the 51% went to me. I have the original corp. papers signed, and the will leaving it to me. My ex husband has closed this business without my knowledge, and has his own in another city, which I found on line to be worth $500,000 to 1 million dollars. I have macular degeneration and unable to work as a nurse as I have last 38 yrs. I thought I could go into family business to earn my money. I now live on $1200.00 a month, and when the $46,000 left in my IRA (I lost 1/3 in 2008 that I can never make back). After that IRA is gone I will be on food stamps, and live in section 8 housing.JA: Because real estate law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?Customer: I am sorry, The shop, M & T Pawn shop was in Rocky Mount, N.C.JA: Has anything been filed or reported?Customer: I still call info and get phone number, but it isn't working. To my knowledge, nothing has been filed or reported. How do I get this information. This is a very untrustworthy man...he slighted IRS for yrs, and I left this abusive relationship still scared of him..I have NO money to fight for my rights to this family businessJA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?Customer: what can I do to claim my business, or at least the merchandise that he took from my business to put in his...I have NO idea when this happened. I sent him a text asking him. No answer from him. I am in the middle of filing personal bankruptcy and am afraid if he filed bankruptcy to close M&T that I, being 51% owner will be responsible for this as well

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Law Educator, Esq.

Attorney At Law

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My friend just had her 2 daughter taken away because she was

My friend just had her 2 daughter taken away because she was in an abusive relationship and failed to leave. She is doing everything possible to get them back including filing for divorce. The is currently pregnant and will give birth before she gets her kids back and they're telling her they're going to take the baby as soon as she has it too. Is there any way possible I would be able to adopt the baby before they take it?

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