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There is no any specific form. The information parents need - is for child care expenses deduction. There is no any form to be sent to the IRS.
The letter should contain the Tax ID of your preschool, and amount paid separately for each child.
Please see more information in the IRS publication 503 - http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf