Thank you for your reply, but seems so unfair as everything I do, I do according to the book! Now I get this....and it wasnt even my fault!
I just blame the attorney who did the divorce at the time, he should have informed me about it then already and acted accordingly, then the costs would have been much less and things would have been in place, now I am stuck with the mess and expense.
What I now would like to know, someone advised me to lodge a complaint to the Law Society in this regard, they will (could) take the matter up with said attorney who did the divorce and request that the costs be borne by him himself, as he failed to tend to the matter as he should have done legally, which was obviously not done. Did he not know about it, did he not bother to assist, who knows? His customers/clients dont know the law, how was I to know about it? After all, he is the expert, he is the attorney who does divorces, he should advise one accordingly. How many more people are stuck with legal expenses due to his ignorance/poor work and advise. Its really shocking. Should I be able to lodge a complaint, please advise what procedure I should follow, are the forms available on the net, etc.
Thank you for your assistance so far.