What age can a child decide which parent they want to live with?
Im from the USA, and she is from SA. She cheated, got pregnant and and went to her parents home right before my son was born to gain legal ground if he came out to be mine. I was acting on the hauge convention because he was suppose to be born in the USA, and he was conceived here too, but I did not enough money to pay for it all. I do now.
Good day. There is no set age in South African Law where a child can make a decision. The Children's Act state that if the court is convinced that the child is of sufficient maturity to make his own choice and not, for instance, be influenced by his parents in his choice, the court will take his choice into consideration.Note that, if the child discloses a preference, that is not the only factor that the court will take into consideration. In all circumstances, the court will take the best interest of the child in consideration. Section 7 of the Act lists the factors that the court will take into consideration in establishing the best interest of the child.7. Best interests of child standard.—(1) Whenever a provision of this Act requires the best interests of the child standard to be applied, the following factors must be taken into consideration where relevant, namely—(a)the nature of the personal relationship between—(i)the child and the parents, or any specific parent; and(ii)the child and any other care-giver or person relevant in those circumstances;(b)the attitude of the parents, or any specific parent, towards—(i)the child; and(ii)the exercise of parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child;(c)the capacity of the parents, or any specific parent, or of any other care-giver or person, to provide for the needs of the child, including emotional and intellectual needs;(d)the likely effect on the child of any change in the child’s circumstances, including the likely effect on the child of any separation from—(i)both or either of the parents; or(ii)any brother or sister or other child, or any other care-giver or person, with whom the child has been living;(e)the practical difficulty and expense of a child having contact with the parents, or any specific parent, and whether that difficulty or expense will substantially affect the child’s right to maintain personal relations and direct contact with the parents, or any specific parent, on a regular basis;( f )the need for the child—(i)to remain in the care of his or her parent, family and extended family; and(ii)to maintain a connection with his or her family, extended family, culture or tradition;(g)the child’s—(i)age, maturity and stage of development;(ii)gender;(iii)background; and(iv)any other relevant characteristics of the child;(h)the child’s physical and emotional security and his or her intellectual, emotional, social and cultural development;(i)any disability that a child may have;( j)any chronic illness from which a child may suffer;(k)the need for a child to be brought up within a stable family environment and, where this is not possible, in an environment resembling as closely as possible a caring family environment;(l)the need to protect the child from any physical or psychological harm that may be caused by—(i)subjecting the child to maltreatment, abuse, neglect, exploitation or degradation or exposing the child to violence or exploitation or other harmful behavior; or(ii)exposing the child to maltreatment, abuse, degradation, ill-treatment, violence or harmful behavior towards another person;(m)any family violence involving the child or a family member of the child; and(n)which action or decision would avoid or minimize further legal or administrative proceedings in relation to the child.(2) In this section “parent” includes any person who has parental responsibilities and rights in respect of a child.
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