Good afternoon Bob,
I'm Doug, and I'm sorry to hear of the confusion. My goal is to provide you with excellent service today.
You are correct---there is a whole lot of confusion as well as misinformation.
Your wife will never be able to file and suspend. This is because she will not be 66 before April 30, 2016. However, she will be able to file for a restricted spouse benefit as soon as she turns 66. The ability to file restricted was only taken from people born after January 2, 1954.
When your wife turns 66 she can file for a restricted spouse benefit based on the fact that you have already filed and suspended (which MUST be done before April 30, 2016---and which you say you have already done) and she will get the full spouse benefit while both of your retirement benefits continue to grow from age 66 to age 70, at 8% per year.
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I wish you and yours the best in 2016,