I'm Doug, and I'm very sorry to hear of your situation. My goal is to provide you with excellent service today.
Aetna would only be first in line if your husband were actually performing work for Lockheed. Because he is not working, and despite the fact that his employer may be paying for some or all of his health insurance, Medicare is primary and Aetna is only secondary.
Unfortunately, you received bad advice from LMCO and were not able to make a good decision because of that misinformation. Unless you could prove who it was that gave you the bad information and prove that they were acting on behalf of LMCO, you would probably not succeed in a lawsuit against LMCO for negligence.
Also, I hope that you are paying for Medicare Part B at this point because you do not qualify for a waiver of payment based on your husband having healthcare----because that waiver only applies if he is actually working while receiving the healthcare coverage.
I understand that you may be disappointed by the Answer you received, as it was not particularly favorable to your situation. Had I been able to provide an Answer which might have given you a successful legal outcome, it would have been my pleasure to do so.
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