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I am sorry to hear that you are having this issue.
Do you know your Apple I'd and password?
You will need to sign in to icloud.com and disable the find my iPhone feature. Then connect the iPhone to your computer with the USB cable
You can use the cable that charges the iPhone if it is a cord and adapter charger.