Hi, My name is ***** ***** certifiedr professional with over 10 years experience. I will be glad to assist you with this. .I am sorry to hear that you are having this issue.
Unfortunately that is not possible. There are a lot of fraudulent websites that will lead you to believe it is possible however it can't be done. I am sorry to inform you of this. The only way to do it will be by either having access to the phone physically and install a reputable spy app that you can monitor from your computer or if it is an iPhone you can monitor the text and calls with the Apple I.D and password.