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Hello Stanger, Well I have made a decision, and I'm not looking for approval/disapproval but just wanted to run something by you that to me just doesn't make sense. I am finally done with Sherry Jen. The thing that does not make sense to me is I hade finally gotten to a place where I have tried it her way and it didn't work. I have tried it my way, and it didn't work. So I told her we needed help. We needed to seek professional help, as in a couples counselor. I tried to be as very fair as I knew how to be and told her to research some in her area, or half way in between us, and I will pay for it. So she chose a counselor which really surprised me, but she did. It is a man and wife marriage/couples counseling team. Sherry wanted the man. So I called and made an appointment. It was going to be $300.00 for a 2 hour session, the first hour I would go with the man, and she would go with the woman, then the last hour all 4 of us would come together. When I forwarded the new patient paper work for Sherry to fill out, because I had spoke with the woman it was from the woman, Sherry got pissed and said you didn't even set it up with who I requested, not letting me explain how it worked. So I explained to her that the woman just happened to answer the phone and make the appointment. It is a huband/wife team and I told her how it all worked. Then all of a sudden her therapist tells her that couples counseling is not a good idea at this time because all I want to do is humiliate her. I'm sorry Jen but I just do not believe that a therapist worth a damn would ever advise "AGAINST" getting help even if it happened to be with some other therapist. So I don't buy this bullshit! I tell her I will not see her again until we can see each other in a counselor's office. So a week or two goes by (to see if I am bluffing) then she decides that she will compromise and tells me that if I talk to someone and spill all my dirty little secrets and can PROVE that, she will sit down with me in a counselor's office. So I turned to Just Answer and I threw it out as a new question to whomever wanted to pick it up. I did exactly as she requested and I focused mainly on me and mainly all of the negative, the lies, the betrayals, the porn, whatever she has problems with. The counselor wanted to hear from her and somehow or another I got her to respond. So when it was all said and done...I asked when we were going to see a counselor, she changed her mind because I had not seen a "Real" counselor I had only talked to an online quack. So I am done. I went this past friday to Mandeville, LA to have some professional photographs taken and I am in the process of creating a profile for a dating website. I've done everything I know to do. Nothing is ever 100% one person's fault. It takes two to make or break it and if you both are working toward a common goal...what's the point? Sherry sent me a text from "Susan" of her opinion to this online quack and used lots of counselor terminology and signed off at the end saying "Be Mindful Of The Weather" The sentence structure and syntax seemed an awful lot like Sherry's, but whatever. Then last night Sherry signs off from her text talking to me with "Be Mindful Of The Weather" Hmmm? What do you think? Steven
I am over it! I tried dating a new guy I meet about 2 weeks ago. Today around 9:54 am I called and left a message on his voicemail about getting together next weekend. Today when I called and left a message he texted Good Morning, I am at church will call you when I get out Ok. I didn't know how to responded but just said k. it is now 2:13 pm and no call. I starting to believe he is not interested or I am annoying by always contacting him. I am what are you doing?. No response after that prior, till this text he apologize for not calling and texting but is busy at work and would call me later this was after I sent a text message saying Over first week today was great, But I notice a difference in this week you don't call or text. I am starting to feel like you have lost interest and if that's the case pleased let me know cause I don't like to waste anyone time considering blocking his number. I remember him saying in the first week when we spent time together that he is not the guy who will not be all over me in regards XXXXX XXXXX posessive. He also asked was I available the weekend after next which will be Easter weekend I said yes, but I did not understand why he asked that question and not about the weekend that was coming up. The first week of contact he called and text constantly and saw me 3 times in a week. The last time I saw him he took me and 3 year old out to dinner, and I told him to come in while I put my 3 year to bed. He tried to make some moves . but I said not now and just because I decide to give us a chance does not mean I want to have sex. Any thoughts?