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I have known my male coworker for 10 years and have always been fond of him. We actually met when he was incarcerated 10 years ago and I hired him after he was released from prison. I am no longer his supervisor and we have worked in different departments for 7 years now. He has always flirted with me and I always shied away. About a week ago he asked me out and I accepted. He told me not to tell anyone on the job that we were going out on a date because he said he was a very private person. We had sex on the first date and it was the best sex that I have ever had in my life. He was a perfect gentleman on the date, but when the sex was over, I abruptly said that I had to go and got out of there fast. It has been a week now since we had sex and it seems like he has lost interest. He is not flirting with me as much and it feels so awkward when we see each other on the job. I see him looking at me like he is still attracted to me, but it seems like he is avoiding me in some way. My question is, how do I get our relationship back to where he would ask me out again. I don't want him to be mad at me or lose respect for me. I care about him very much, but I don't feel as if I showed him that I cared because I left so fast after we had sex.